What should i do about my woman friend?

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Her and myself have been friends but yesterday she did something that hurt my feelings. I ended up coming off as cold and unfriendly to her which probably hurt her feelings a little bit. As a result she did something else that hurt my feelings.

Her and I seem to be going through a stage of upsetting each other at the moment and our friendship is being tested. Should I have a talk to her or is this a sign her and myself are not meant to be friends and should I just ignore her? She is not a super close friend so I get the feeling that for this reason she will probably just make fun of me if I say anything but who knows if she will or not.

Please be nice. I don't know what to do and I am only looking for helpful advice. We are a man and woman friend and it seems feelings have got in the way.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    You're very vague. What on earth are you two doing that's making you both so upset with each other?

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      Indeed, way to muthafuckin vague.

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  • Ben_drowned_ego
    6 years ago

    I suggest to apologize and tell her that you didn't mean it and that you want her close to you and the you don't want to lose her over a petty argument and it also depends what you guys fought over and if you have feelings for each other i hope this was some help~

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    • New-Zealand-Guy
      6 years ago

      I guess so. I felt she was rude in the first place though and don't see why I should have to apologise but yeah thanks.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    I agree..I didn't get most of that..Sounds to me like either this friendship was never really what you thought it was, or, it's just running it's course. I have a now-former business associate/partner, who I was very close with. She and I did everything together, and most of our business group thought we were a couple. Hell, we wrote a lot of business just because of how we related, like a couple or husband and wife, with clients.

    We were very close, but, I also sensed an undertone of "this won't last". Just two different people, different beliefs (for example, she was a huge conspiracy theorist..everything was a conspiracy..the moon landing, 911, Indians, etc) and did show her lack of education often, and, while looked great together, including winning a "best-looking team" at a higher-end gathering one night, both had the feeling we could do better.

    Some things just run their course, and that's it. I do miss her from time to time, however, also think about the trying, frustrating times with her where my brain said "She's not for you"..

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