What should i do about my parents abusing me?

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For years this has happend. My family beats me. And now that im older i think its about time i make a decision. So my parents always beat me with objects that they can find. They keep me locked away from the world. I wish i could show people the scars but the sneaky assholes are smart enought not to leave a trace. They wont let me get a job so i cant get money to leave. And i dont have a car. My boyfriend knows about it and we are both afraid of saying something. Because theres a high chance my father will kill us both. My parents are what i like to call them insane constant abusive bipolar uh...people. Now what i mean is. My parents give me money to keep my mouth shut about there abuse towards me. And if i refuse they take it as a threat. Meaning theyll think ill tell on them. My plan with this is to save that money and when the time is right ill get a restraining order on them if or when i get out. But right now.im stuck. I need to tell my bfs parents about this. His mother said once of something bad happend to me shed take me in. And honestly iwont bum off the i wouldnt dare. Im a hard working honest person they know that. Even what im posting now is kinda dangerous...im scared theyll find out...but i really need help. And i really need other peoples POSITIVE advice. Also as well my parents are talking about moving and i cant go. If i doi wont make it my bodys just going to end up somewhere...so please hel me...i know obviously its not normal so please leave advice in the comment section.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Tell someone. For example: the authorities, a trusted teacher who will more than likely report your statement to the authorities/CPS. Find a place to stay. You should tell your boyfriend's parents.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Get the hell out of the house and report their asses to the authorities.

    You're welcome.

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  • SchizoidPsycho
    10 years ago

    Plus reporting it to peoples parents, the authorities bla bla never works. Like you said these parents are sly fucks who will worm their way out of any of these situations and it eventually backfires on you.

    It's a shit life, but you should stand your ground and refuse to take their bullshit anymore and suffer the consequences.

    I'd rather die standing up for myself, than die a victim to the person who brought me here in the first place. That's tragic.

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  • SchizoidPsycho
    10 years ago

    I can relate. They sound like Narcissists, you should check it up.

    You're only going to come out this situation mentally fucked up, so you should try retain the little sanity you have left and stand on your own feet and get the hell out.

    Counterdependence is what got me through, now they try to buy my 'love' with gifts.

    Nothing will give you that security or peace when you know you don't have to rely on them for anything.

    Unfortunately, some 'parents' are just cunts who see their kids as punchbags or objects for their own gratification. Fuck them.

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  • thr
    10 years ago

    Have your boyfriend talk to the police/CPS about it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You need to get out and you should tell your boyfriends parents. You should report this and I hope your parents are prosecuted. Nobody is worse than abusive parents. I'd take care of them myself if I knew where they were. Get out and don't turn back.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    10 years ago

    Im trying to leave in the summer because its cold as ass and that'll be a problem. Trust me on that one. And i have to get out quick. My foolish asshole father is spending all the money on nonsense bullsh!t (ill try to update whenever i can...)

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    I know it's important to you to be self-reliant but I think in this case it might be the best option for you to seek refuge at your boyfriends house and sort it out legally from there. Perhaps your BEST bet would be to find someone to talk to that knows how to handle this situation best when it comes to having violent parents. The most important thing is not that you get out of the house but that you get out safely and remain that way.

    Is the internet safe for you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Im not even sure anymore...

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