What should i do about my friend?

I hate going to far off places in the city for no good reason so whenever i want to go downtown to see the lights i always bring my friend Charles over. I knew him ok in high school but he was very unpopular and only had a few friends. but recently I've hung out with him because he's never busy and unemployed and he is just another ear to talk into. Although the more i hang out with him the more i begin to realize what i mismatch we are, he's very depressing to talk to. Whenever i just discus things i'm planning or thoughts that have entered my mind its he always responds by trying to connect it to an Anime. It seems as though thats the scope of his life and it depresses me, Anime, and mobile games.... In-fact what about him doesn't depress me. Every idea i have he finds the negative and is always so annoying about it. When ever me and the other guys joke about women, he always jokes about what a "loser" he is and emphasizes how "nice guys finish last" and he has no solution to finishing first. He is so Depressing, at a fun dinner with the guys he'll mention how he was bullied and high school and elementary school and become a toal bzz-kill. Sometimes i can look past things like that, but now as i bring him to events with my other friends he'll embarass me pulling out his middle finger all the time and photo-bombing us when trying to make nice photos. He'll even outloud mention sex and sexual remarks as we go to other public places. Its getting out of hand, but i worry that if i just give up him i'll have not go to person when i want to walk or go to a certain part of town. I hate traveling alone. what should i do.

Accept his faults and stay friends 3
Tell him he needs to calm down or leave 5
Screw Charles, he's wasting your time. find someone esle to replace. 6
Screw Charles, learn to travel alone 6
other 2
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  • noid

    Sounds like you're just using him anyway.

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    • Ellenna

      I agree: using him but complaining he doesn't behave exactly as OP wants him to

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  • RoseIsabella

    Grow a pair, and venture out by yourself. If you're afraid for your safety then maybe get a weapon and or study self defense. If you're just afraid of being alone when you go out and about it may suprizingly be a more complex matter.

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    • I think so, im beginning to realize that there is nothing good that can come out with a friendship with charlie, he's wasting my time, and his own too, i'll continue on with my life and he can continue on with his anime and flash games.

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  • (s)aint

    He´s depressing but you are using him because you don´t have anyone else who puts up with you?
    Poor Charles,

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  • Rusty-Rider

    Wait 'till he's sleeping and implant electrodes into his brain. Put a standard micro-usb connector on the wires leading to the electrodes.
    Plug him into your laptop and play all the episodes of "Happy Days" at high speed.
    That should change his attitude to be more like yours.
    The other option is to get a different person to hang with.

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    • anything but "How I met Your Mother" Neil Patrick Harris's comedy could drive anyone to insanity.

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