What should i do?

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My Husban and I have been together 4 yrs and married 7 months. He's 23 and I am 20. We have been trying to conceive but no luck for the last 9 months. I have been tested for everything and I am completely fertile. My Husban on the other hand hasn't been checked to see if he's fertile. How ever with his past it has lead us to believe he is not fertile. Sense we started suspecting him being unfertile I haven't had a desire to have sexy with him. Is this normal and if so what should I do. I love him to death but find myself not wanting him sexually. He is lucky if he gets it twice a month.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    The first thing is for him to be tested.

    If you've only been having sex to get pregnant it's hardly surprising you've gone off sex with him but surely sex isn't about one party "getting it" but about both of you enjoying each other?

    You have two distinct issues here: infertility and you not wanting sex. Maybe you'd better work out which is the most important (I suspect infertility) and deal with that initially, but don't neglect dealing with the second issue for too long.

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    • 90schild
      7 years ago

      We went from having sexual 4 or five times a to maybe 2 just cause I don't feel the desire to do it

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        Well it's not going to change back all by itself, the first thing is to TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!

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  • thatcutesmileyguy
    7 years ago

    Maybe light get a sperm donation? Once your husband is checked and deemed infertile, and if he is okay with it. If so, do the sperm donation. Or maybe even adopt.

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  • Fugazi.
    7 years ago

    Just adopt unless for some reason its necessary to have a kid who looks like you

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  • 90schild
    7 years ago

    Thank you

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