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right, me and this guy have been talking for a while, we have the same things in common and get on soo well, we both want a relationship together but i recently found out that we're really distant cousin's through marriage, is this classed as insest? I'm not sure if he knows but i don't want to ruin the friendship also, shall i go for it or is it wrong? Please help... Xx
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Do what ever you want based on your own definition of what incest is.
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As far as biological relatedness, the two of you are fine. As long as your friend is not the offspring of your mom or dad, or your aunt and uncle, go for it.
Tell him. Even if u both fall deeply in love and he doesn't find out for 30yrs...well he may resent u, feel betrayed and like his life was a lie. Or possibly kill himself, if this is insest and he is really against it. And there is a definition. We don't get to make up our own definitions for words and if I are then there other issues. Tell him. The sooner the better. My bf told me he was married the first time we spoke for hours on the phone,however he waited a year to tell me where all my missing panties and cloths and makeup went. I love him, but hate him for betraying what I thought was an honest relationship.but feel bad bc I can't help him. And they look way better on me!
First off, if your related by marrige you have no blood with him, so really it shouldn't mater at all.
I would tell him, stress that it's only through marige (and that any posible babies won't be messed up), if he's cool with it go for it.
Or go through with it, and if he finds out on his own act surprised.
Tell him. If you both want to go on from there? Go for it. Every one is related to some point. Just dont go for it without him knowing... If he finds out after sex, it could be a real combobreaker. (finaly got to use that :D)
if u really like him go for it and if he finds out make out u didnt no and that you personally do not mind and if he doesnt also then should be ok.
If you're so distant then i dont see how its a problem, not like you're sister n brother.