What shall i do?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2yrs. An I really love him. When I met him, he was married and so was I. Well, I divorced my husband because I thought maybe he would do the same. And we would live happy ever after, but it didn't work like that. Instead, I called his wife and told her all about me, he denined that he knew me are was ever at my house, so I sent her a message on facebook showing her pictures where he was at my house. I really didn't want to hurt her, I just wanted hem to tell me the truth.
I hate that I did that, we broke up for 2wks, we then got back together and then he told me that his wife was sick and passed out on her job, only to learn she had cancer. GOD rest her soul, she died. But before she died I sent her a message to appologized for all that I had done. I did this before he told me she was sick. She left behind a 12yr old daughter, who knows about all the things that I had done. Me and her father is still together but SHE HATES ME.. I love her so much and send her little gifts just because. I have never met her yet and her mother only been dead for 5 months. He say that he wants his 2 best girls to get alone. I don't have any living children, my daughter would have been her age if she would have lived.
When I call the his house for him, she tells me to hold on and hangs the phone up in my face. He told her that I am his friend. Cause we both agree that it is to early to tell her that I am his women.
I am so obcessed with being with him, until I drive him crazy while he is at work. Where is I use to have him in my arms 4times a week before his wife died, I might see him 1 day durning the weekend. He still do as he has been doing, keeping my bills paid even though he has never lived with me, buy groceries, and still give me money.
I understand that it is easier for grown-ups to get over things than that of a child. An I am learning to step back and let him be a FATHER to his daughter, but I don't know what to do to occupy my mind. I go to school fulltime, but with part-time hours. Durning the rest of the day I have nothing else to do, but drive him crazy about everything.
I love him and he takes alot off on me and he is still here for me when I need him, so yes he loves me. But what can I do to take him off of my mind? And how do I deal with his daughter? I send her gifts, not using my name, the card say to her special friend. I just want to give her all the love that she needs, be her friend when she needs it...
How can i bring OUR RELATIONSHIP CLOSEr instead of pushing him away? How can I stop going off on him for every little thing that he don't do?