What's your relation to sexual fantasies( 'wank bank') as time goes by?

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I've been having some libido issues for some time now. It's most noticeable when I choose to masturbate, which is seeming much more like a decision nowadays, as opposed to a outlet valve that was hard to control.

Some of the guys I fantasized about, or crushed on (turned me on more) I have difficulty getting aroused by. Perhaps masturbation has lost it's luster for me, but I'm curious how other people are experiencing it.

But, as I typed out the answers, I kind of realized I identified with my sexual fantasies being stronger when I'm attracted to someone IRL. I think when I'm crushing on someone, or into someone, EVERYTHING is turned on, including all my fantasies. Right now, I'm pretty apathetic about life (very little desire or attraction) so maybe that makes sense why it's not doing it anymore; that it's circumstantial.

They're just as strong as I become attracted to someone in my current life. 1
They've lessened and gotten less appealing over time. 1
They fizzle out as I become attracted to new people in my current life. 0
They are independent of what's happening in my life. 2
They've grown and gotten more pleasurable/in depth over time. 1
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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    I just fantasise about a stranger breaking into my flat and violently raping me then murdering me during sex.

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      Yeah you better be good at sex in order for a guy to want to stay with you with that line of crazy sex.

      The raping part is semi normal. Adding the murder part brings it over the line in fantasies.

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