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Why is it every time I like someone, they don't like me back. But once they like me, I don't like them anymore. This is so unfair! :(
I wish I still love someone I used to really like but the feelings suddenly changed once we're getting close.
I think i might have an idea.. i remember in my youth having had the same issue. As i got older, i recognized what it was. U see, when u dont anticipate more than friends, u act differently than u act when u like someone. What i learned to do is just think of everybody just as a friend. Bcuz for me i would act all stupid when i liked them. That personality i extracted from myself bcuz it was just dumb & thinking from their perspective was just plain annoying.
Better you stop liking them before you waste time on them. if you stop liking someone randomly you probably never actually did.
Do your feelings change as soon as you know they like you?
Or a bit later down the track?
Depending on your answertop that maybe it's the thrill of the chase?
You want what you can't have.
Until you can have it...
Or you do what I've done in the past.
You subconciously realise you're getting too close to someone & in danger of ending up hurt so you pull back when things get too real...
Generally don't even know you're doing it at the time.
I think your finally realizing how much of the "inside" actually matters to you.
Sure, the way they look matters, it's what reels you into them, but its the personality that makes you stick with the person.
the mental picture you paint them to be, before you meet them, is only temporary. it disappears once you get to know them
Totally normal.
Shit, be happy someone likes you. The feeling of being chased is a mystery to me.