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What's going to really hurt you deep down? It could range from "You smell" to "You're a vile human being" to "You're fat".
Feel free to be as creative as wanted.
You 21 year old, English, hat wearing, music loving, kik using, bearded man!
The best I could do with the information I have :/
You are totally on the ball, aren't you?
I only came on here to see what others were replying, no way I'm gonna tell the world my vulnerabilities
It depends on the person.
A lot of people could say anything they want about me, I wouldn't care.
But the right person (there's not many) can destroy me with just a few words.
I'm normally more upset by those I love being attacked, not me
You've hit the nail right on the head with this response.
It so depends on the person who says it to you. If you can't stand them then meh. If you care for them then no matter how slight the insult is it cuts you far more.
When I've had fights with people I dislike and they insult me I just say to them "I don't care enough about you and your feelings to fight with you" and walk away. That usually works for me.
If your mom says she wishes you were never born or she never wanted you. That's gotta be at the top.
"She'll gain back all that weight that she lost a few months from now."
That's currently the worst thing anyone can say to me if they ever decided to say it to me directly instead of behind my back like they always do.
Insults can only be flattering. If someone cares enough to "try", it only makes the person trying sound pitiful and showing that they care... too much. You win the second someone tries to bring you down.
Unless you're talking football [NFL]
Touch on my team---you're gonna hear it--and potentially hit a nerve.. However my team IS the best and no one can touch them. Guess I win!
Someone sating "omg..what the hell is wrong with her?" in a sweet caring voice .-.
Not sure if I'm comfortable with sharing that. But people rarely manages to mention the complexes that I have so I figured they aren't that easy to spot.
Another thing is when people really close to me let me down in one way or the other.
I will however say that I'm sensitive about my weight (What woman aren't) but I also know that I see myself as chubby when in fact I'm far from it, close to underweight rather.
Oh wait I've got one - that I'm not tight. Like if they went in and said 'am I in?'
That's the female equivalent of the insecurity about penis size, I guess :)
A real insult would have to be something that I think about myself. And so they are hitting me where it hurts. But I know what I'm not so good at, and accept myself...so not sure I could really be hurt by an insult.