What's the best way to attract girls?

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I've never had a girlfriend before (I'd really like one) and I've researched and observed various methods of attracting girls and I was wondering if you could vote on which one you feel is most effective.

Never talk to her, but follow her around and hope she notices me. 2
Befriend her, but mock and insult a lot so she won't think I like her. 0
Befriend her and be really nice to her so she'll think I'm a nice guy. 9
Flirt with her, but ignore her / play hard to get so she'll pursue me. 11
Flirt with her constantly so she'll go out with me just so I'll stop. 0
Constantly compliment her and be really nice and helpful. 2
Just be myself and ask her out (I wouldn't be very confident, though). 23
Be mean / rude to her so she'll think I'm tough / a bad boy. 2
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    be yourself. There's no point tricking somebody into liking a fictional version of you. If somebody doesn't like you for who you already are there is no reason to attract them.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    The one thing I believe all girls like the best in a guy is a good sense of humor. If you can make a girl laugh, she will enjoy spending time with you. That doesn't mean being a clown, or constantly telling jokes, but being in an upbeat mood and seeing the humor in situations that would have a lot of guys cursing their ass off. Romance is nice, but a bit strong early in a relationship, so nix the temptation to give gifts and too many compliments. Always be yourself; just be a happy, fun to be with self.

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  • zlofton
    9 years ago

    show her your dick....just walk up to her and pull it out and smack that bitch across her face.

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  • deadtea
    9 years ago

    Everything beside being yourself might make her think you're a creep.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    This kid knows what he's doing
    http://i1.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/001/052/melvin.jpg

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Glue money to your clothes, preferably large bills.

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  • AlphaQ
    9 years ago

    Just be yourself. Ask her out when something interests you. Let instincts take over and if shes being flaky. Dump her first better you than her.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Dress nice, take care of yourself, manscape, wear cologne, not too much though. Make eye contact when u talk to them, and physical contact if possible, even if it's just a hand touch. If her mind is anywhere near attraction, making that physical connection usually pushes em over the edge. Be respectful and attentive. People will tell u that being a dick will get u laid, and while that may be true, you are attracting the wrong kind of attention. The girls that have major daddy issues and will probably give u the clap.compliments help too. Almost all women like to feel beautiful Nd attractive. And letting them know that you notice can go a long way to building a bridge between the two of you.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    Make them it metal and then by a very strong magnet.

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  • Caps90
    9 years ago

    If you are not yourself how is she supposed to like the real you?

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  • theseeker
    9 years ago

    I would think befriending her and being nice would be a good start. If you're able to get to know her and she's easy to talk to, then that could lead to you asking her out. I have noticed girls definitely appreciate compliments, but doing it excessively will likely turn a girl off. Just my thoughts.

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago

    "Never talk to her, but follow her around and hope she notices me."

    She'll notice you, but she might call the police afterwards.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    It solely depends on how ugly you are.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    learn to sing / play the guitar , everyone loves him everyone wants him just a friendly feminist opinion , good day!

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    Bug zapper

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  • TimmyTheTurtle
    9 years ago

    whip out your dick and see if she approves.

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    • Nokiot9
      9 years ago

      I had a friend that would do that shit to girls. Lol it worked maybe... 30% of the time. The other 70 they'd scream or kick him in the junk

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      • TimmyTheTurtle
        9 years ago

        well he sounds like a rookie... he should of just showed them a picture of it from a safe distance :L

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