What's goin on?

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this guy i've made out with is very hot and cold, he'll text me non stop for a month or so and not for about 2, but stay in touch especially when he brings me to his friends parties(like every week)we'll makeout but we're drunk everytime even though he said he would even if we were sober. we also invite eachother over to eachothers houses when parents arent home, but it never happens. we aren't going out, but whenever i talk to other guys he gets really possesive or jealous like he'll pull me away are start kissing me. and i've told him i wont have sex until i get a boyfriend, and yet he never asks me out, and he pretends to be a huge player, but definatly is not..so what do you guys think is goin on?

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  • TheGasManCometh
    13 years ago

    I'm inclined to agree with teehee - there's a strong possibility he's gay.

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  • Just1question
    13 years ago

    He sounds like a bit of a dick to be honest luv..

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  • atomicwater
    13 years ago

    Simple he is crazy

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Simply put...you are being used. I'd break off all contact and let him find another poor soul to use.

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  • Sullivan
    14 years ago

    sounds like he might be scared.

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  • dimple_27
    14 years ago

    im in that situation to... for me its the guy is in love with me but he is my best friend , my padre, my brother from another mother and i dont want to cross that line i dont make out with him but he is always saying "jkingly" im gonna marry you and stuff like that or i love lol hahah he probably not talking to you to try to make you jealous so it seems like he is a huge player... but really he is in love with you and all he wants to do is be with u i say if he is not man enough to say his feelings than move on!

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    He's not that into you, but he wants to know you're into him. Ditch him, he's a child.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Hey - you are his BOOTY CALL. Thats it. Thats all. If you are looking for a relationship - ditch him & look elsewhere.

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  • sockssweaters
    14 years ago

    this happened to me. except it was an ex boyfriend and we were having sex every month or so when he called. looks like the guy you're talking about would be into something like that too, and trust me it's not worth your time. You'll just end up getting hurt. Next time he wants to hangout, don't.

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  • SupNucka
    14 years ago

    dude, he's not a fag, he's a playa
    and ur concubine
    let me guess, you have ZERO self esteem? and you think your ugly? Yeah. nuff said

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  • teehee
    14 years ago

    i think he's a fag

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  • lawliett
    15 years ago

    Doesn't seem normal to me but only because I wouldn't even bother with a guy like that. They may not be playas but it doesn't mean they don't wanna be. I'd rather have someone who respected me.

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  • WhyItsMe
    15 years ago

    Guys usually tried to make sure he doesn't lose his girl to another guy. Just make sure he doesn't do it too much and make you uncomfortable.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    15 years ago

    and i might add that we've either made out or just kissed and slept the night together about a dozen times or more..

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