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| Strong and Determined | 50 | |
| Girlish and Innocent | 24 | |
| Foolish and Stubborn | 2 | |
| Intelligent and Cunning | 51 | |
| Shy and Mysterious | 36 | |
| Talkative and Friendly | 31 | |
| Danger-seeking and Fearless | 20 | |
| Humorous and Playful | 94 | |
| Rude and Controlling | 17 |
Aha I love how my comment got deleted so i will repeat myself.
You missed out the type of man most women like you know the one that falls under the catagorie of being a complete jackass with a 6 pac who will obviously just use the girl. I mean you missed out the main one that girls usualy go for. Lol I still find it ironic how you deleted my comment in the first place lol.
you are right, and this is coming from a girl. But I think the reason girls go for the jerks sometimes (this is my reason I'm not sure about other girls) is because we like a challenge and we think we can change them. We can't though. I know because I went out with a complete ASS and I thought that I would be the girl that changed him, but no I was the same as all the other girls. So yea you are right, but I don't understand why we are attracted to ass's, doesn't make sense.
I have never in my life dated a "jack ass." Many girls do date losers, but not all. Don't let things you see happening around you get you down, ItDuz. The most important thing to me has always been intelligence. If I can't carry on an adult conversation with someone about current events, philosophy or any important matter with out them getting lost or losing interest then I am not going to stay with him. However, if he is at all rude or disrespectful that will not fly either and he will be alone faster than he knows it. It is equally important to be mature, thoughtful and respectful.
Intelligent and cunning. Because if he's intelligent he can be all the other one too in a balanced way. so hah! I win.
Politeness. The small stuff like opening the door, waiting for someone to stop talking to say what you need to say, being attentive.. It's nice and makes me smile.. Not exactly 'turn me on' but it'll get me to like the person, haha.
I like guys that are friendly, but have a sense of humor, they're honest to my face, have common sense(I dont really care too much about how smart they are in the basic school subjects, common sense is enough for me.). They're trust worthy, and trust me too. They are sweet, but not in a player kind of way. And they are emotionally strong, have morals, and stand up for me if someone puts me down. And a little bit of mystery is attractive. Oh yes, and determined as well as easy to carry a conversation with.
I think that a man should always want to play (not always in a sexual way) and joke around. It seems like a lot of women cant take jokes but i love them :-)
oh fuck i just wish a "foolish and stubborn" guy would take me right now
I'd put myself somewhere between strong/determined and humorous/playful. Although there wasn't much choice in that poll - I would say, if I could: kind, loyal, brave, humorous and loving. I don't care a sh*t what he looks like, or how popular he is. And that's the honest truth.
The poll asnwers are not correct. Usually women seem to like rude douchebags, who got money and/or good looks. Even though they always say that only personality matters.
Women are just as shallow as men.
You a woman? Even if you are - speak for yourself! Not all of us go by looks.
That's not true at ALL, I love my bf to death and though he is attractive to me now when we first saw each other I didn't think he was particularly good looking, I didn't start loving how he looked until we started dating, so :P
I chose talkative and friendly, because that's usually what draws me out of my shell the most. I can be talkative around the right kind of person, but a man who is shy will tend to make me uncomfortably quiet as well. It is important for a man to be intelligent (not cunning), as well as humorous and playful. A woman loves a man who is her intellectual equal and who can make her laugh! And of course, women tend to be drawn to men who are strong and determined (but not to the point of being foolishly stubborn). And as someone else mentioned, loyalty is definitely somewhere near the top of the list of important qualities! In short, he should be a well-balanced, mentally healthy human being.
I said humorous and playful but I'd have to say my fiance is foolish and stubborn...:(
My problem is girls wana fight then I'm just ignorant. If they then want me to do something ill do it. Then they can't stand me fighting back. But if I fight back girls just go on and on. And if I do nothing they just give up ( which is good in my common sense )
danger seeking and fearless- something most people see as the complete opposite of who I am... Not necissarily true. I think we'd balance each other out, and I could be myself around him. =)
My husband caught my eye first with how shy he was the first time we met. After hanging out, how polite he was. And after knowing him for a while, how much he made me laugh. :)