What on earth is wrong with me?!

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Please read my story. Please. I swear on my life I'm not trolling, and I really do need some help right now. I've never been so confused in my life.

A few months back, my family was on vacation. I was with them, and we went into this store. One of the cashiers there, let's call her Jane Rogers, really caught my eye. I can't say I was attracted to Jane at all, but something about her really sparked my interest. I honestly have no idea what drew me to her so much- it was bizarre. Despite this, I managed to stay with my tour group, and not do anything that might seem odd. We left and nothing else remarkable happened after that, nor have we had any contact since. Thing is, I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. She's been constantly on my mind, and though I've made absolutely zero effort to contact Jane in any way, shape, or form (and I have no intention whatsoever to try), it's really getting agonizing. This kind of thing has never happened to me before, nor have I ever felt anything even remotely close to this. I don't know what's wrong with me! Why can't I stop thinking about her? Please help!!!!!

Any opinions or advice, any at all, would be so greatly appreciated! Thank you SO much for listening. I'm honestly not trolling, as much as it may seem like it- I really just want this feeling to stop.

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  • Anarchy
    12 years ago

    That has happened to me. You just have this... craving of seeing her, meeting her, Just talking to her. But no, you lost the chance.

    That's killing you inside.

    Ironic to miss a person you have never met before.

    ☭

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Or maybe you just find her attractive.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    You should follow through with it, because, you just never know. You may really regret not...... those feelings dont come along very often - Trust me

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why don't you try getting in contact with her?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    get in touch with her, man

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    Try and contact her, or go on as you are and hope it gets better. Those are your only choices.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe she's related to you ? Maybe from the past ? Past lives ? Meant to be ? From the future ? Just possibilities.

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  • TheBlueMonster
    12 years ago

    And she really doesn't look like me at all, so I doubt we were related- she had black hair and brown eyes with a bit of a stocky, though not unattractive, build, and I'm a ginger with blue eyes and more on the slender side. I would try to make contact with her, but I'm admittedy a little worried that I might seem like a stalker if I try to message her on Facebook or anything :/ thanks again for all the votes and comments though, really.

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  • TheBlueMonster
    12 years ago

    Thank you so much everyone. I mean that. Especially Anarchy, it's such a relief to know I'm not the only one, nor am I a total psycho. I'm feeling a bit better about the whole situation, though it doesn't seem to be going away. I'll give it a few months and see what happens. With a little luck, I'll run into her again next time I visit the area, as I saw her when I was vacationing somewhere I go somewhat often, and I'll make sure to strike up a conversation. Thanks so much, guys. Really :)

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  • putsonsinfear
    12 years ago

    sry

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  • lillypoppy
    12 years ago

    what did she look like?, age?

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago

    Ring her and try talking to her

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