What kind of advice do you give to this person?

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I have a friend who told me in a overly complicated way his world is falling apart. Something like "Things do not make sense and my world is coming apart and all he struggles for". Yet he says it is because the one women he loved has rejected him. I keep asking how does this effect the way he has blue printed things in his head. He just said "It crumbles within it self". I am kind of annoyed he will not actually answer my question but he sent about 30 texts and I can not block him. What do I say? I can not read his mind.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Time's a fantastic healer.

    Acknowledge and accept your heart broken and be patient with yourself (you're gonna have good days and bad days and its normal)

    Even though you don't feel like it, try to spend time doing doing things that make you feel good (go for a walk, join a club, have a drink with mates, just get out and about and interact with people)

    Don't try to change your deep feelings for them, you're always going to have feelings for them once they run deep. But try to spend more time doing things you enjoy rather then thinking about whats happened/what could have been.

    Its really tough!!!( I know - doing it myself at the moment!) but the more you shift your perspective the easier it becomes

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  • millefeuille
    11 years ago

    he's probably trying to be a thought-provoking asshole?
    at this point i'd ignore him.

    the empathetic me would try to talk to him face-to-face. i'd have to punch him in the face before i'd want to give him advice when he's being goddamn vague.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Well I think he is trying to be more intelligent. However its not a philosophical discussion. He is telling me how upset he is. I asked who is she and he said "Her" and I just like. "Fuck! What do you expect me to do with this"?

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      • millefeuille
        11 years ago

        hmm i see,
        it's not making it easier isn't it? trying to be intelligent... he should just tell you straight up who the hell is this chick.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          I try to tell them that and they don't listen. They just go on with this unnecessarily over complicated speech.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Don't take the small things in life for granted.

    You have only been rejected by a girl you like.
    I know it hurts now but you'll get through this.

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  • creampawf
    7 years ago

    Just talk to him face to face, and tell him that life is full of struggles, and without struggles and failures, we as human beings, cannot improve.

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  • scumfuck
    11 years ago

    just call him texting can be so vague

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    This too shall pass.

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