What is the signal girls are trying to send

i started hanging out with a girl lately and i dont know what signals shes trying to send
im fairly tall for my age group 5'9" but nerdy and wimpy. one event that happened was; i was hanging around her and her friends and she looked at me in the cute "im thinking about you" way and then her friend said "your being obvious"
she has a "boyfriend" but she wont admit that he is. im just really confused and any insight will be appreciated

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  • mizeka

    Girls are always like this. They don't say out loud what they think and just show "hints" and "signals". And still they are angry when boys don't always notice or understand these hints.

    But the funnies thing is, that they think boys are stupid. I think it's rather stupid to think that your hints are so obvious that everyone understands them. Just say what you think! Makes life a lot easier.

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  • DiscoDuck

    Females have huge self esteem issues, any signals are to help her cope with her own self esteem issues. If you bite, that means she can feel attractive. Move on and stop being her play toy.

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  • jessicia16

    as a girl probably in your age group I'll give my opinion... she is probably wanting attention and doesnt like you in any real way, she just sences weakness ... its kinda rare for a girl to be attracted to a guy in her age group ... even if she dates them etc its all just to get confidance level up so she can date older guys.

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  • Piggy123

    She's probably playing a game.

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  • dappled

    You just took me right back to how I felt when I was your age. I've been sitting here wondering what advice I would have given myself that would have helped, and I honestly can't think of anything better than "trust your instincts".

    Sometimes you are going to make a fool of yourself (we've all done it), but if you never put yourself in the position where that happens, you never take the chance of being happy.

    Good luck. I hope it works out for you.

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  • Assisted

    Old post stuff has happened no need to comment

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  • andrian007

    To be honest with you, you haven't got very much to work with over there. People interpret facial expressions differently and what you think may not be what she's really thinking. We can't assume that she likes you just because she gave you a look. That's never enough. Concrete action has to come with it, otherwise for now I would say she's not interested.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    DON'T kick the bf's ass!! I'm a girl, and my best advice would be to just try to be her friend. If you can get along with her as a friend then, possibly ever having any kind of relationship would be more feasible, because if you're spending so much time with someone you need to be their friend. And if, per se you only become her friend, then you gained a friend.. a win-win situation. Don't anticipate anything, as hard as that can be, I understand, but you just need to think in those terms.

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  • nanimeow

    Depends on the girl. We all don't flirt the same.

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  • imacomputer

    she like you but she's testing the waters.

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  • lokita17

    definitly playing around

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  • RentingEmotion

    If her friends say "you're being obvious" to her, when she's looking at you...being a female, I'd say she was being obvious to liking you.

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  • rockhead

    you need to wait for more signals pal.. one look doesnt have to mean anything. does she look at you that way constantly??? i hope she likes you dude but dnt get your hopes up for one look only you knw what im saying? look for other signals too other than that one

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  • Vyzr

    Maybe shes a hoe? Hoes need to be slapped sometimes ya know? But im not sure, if shes not dont slapp her.

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  • I think she definitly likes you

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  • feelsbadman

    Just go for it. Dude, I have everything girls want and they still don't care. If there's even a chance, just go for it. Make out with her, and kick her boyfriends ass.

    You instantly will be the coolest kid in school.

    Additional - when kicking boyfriends ass, sweep the leg. Cheap, but it works. Also go for the nose. Nothing more disconcerting than having your nose messed up.

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    • dappled

      If you have everything girls want, why don't they want it? Have you perhaps made a mistake?

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      • 343Boy

        I don't think girls want him to beat up their boyfriends...

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        • shadowmario

          their boyfriends could beat you up instead!so you gotta point there

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        • dappled

          lol. You have a point!

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  • no_fun

    Just stay away. Probably not worth the trouble.

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  • Assisted

    i couldnt beat him up if i wanted to hes like a frickin line backer

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