What is the reason he's texting me?

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There is this guy in uni who's on his seconde year while I'm a freshman. We're both 22.
I may have smiled to him politely the few times (honestly it may have been only two times) when we crossed way but we never ever talked. He even asked me on FB but it took me some weeks before adding him because I really didn't recognize him.
I finally added him and nothing happend, I didn't see him even once since them. But then some days ago he randomly texted me? Asking if I was doing well with the exams? We enchanged some polite and unteresting words then the conversation died. But today he was wishing me good luck ? Again we exchanged a bit until I stopped answering bacause I didn't know what to write.
I thought he may have been interested in me but I saw on FB that he has a girlfriend of one year and that they are really sweet to each other?
Why Is he texting a stranger? I just don't get what's on his mind?

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  • charli.m
    4 years ago | pl

    Perhaps you should ask him. We're not psychic.

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    Sounds as if he's just playing around, I'd forget about him if I were you

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Yes, I wasn't taking it seriously from the start anyways. He was just doing things so unclearly that I wasn't sure of it, and I'm not used to this so I was wondering if I was right or wrong about it but thanks.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Because his little soldier is lonly. Trust me, I'm a guy. It seems obvious to me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I kind of tought it was this way, but then it means he's pretty bad at what he's trying to do. The conversations are so dry...

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      • those3simplewords
        4 years ago

        Oof men are pigs, .................
        R U U N N N N................

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Most guys are scared to bring up sex until they establish some personal connection first. How many girls do you know that would agree to sex if the first thing a guy said to them was asking to get laid. I have expirience here, and its not many.

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    Facebook? Isn't it dead now?

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    He sent you a few messages about school and you think he's coming on to you? Lol.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I wasn't sure. But what else would it be for? Really, why text someone you've seen twice and greeted once? My guess was that he was just a bit interested but not so much to make any effort? Probably because it's not worth it? And I don't care if he's approaching me or not with this kind of intentions.
      I was just curious about what he was thinking? Because I don't know what are men thinking in general.
      But if you're thinking of something, I'll gladly read you?
      Anyways it's nothing that really matters or worries me.

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  • everythingispermited
    4 years ago

    I think you should meet up in public and just talk, ask him politely what he wants. But most of all just be friendly about it. And to be safe meet in a crowded area

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    4 years ago

    I think that guy just had a good soul, kind of a philantropic ? Anyway I don't get why he's randomly thinking of texting me but It's nice and I should just appreciate this stranger's kindness and stop being defiant.

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago

    girls smile at guys and the guys instantly think the girl likes them so just air his texts

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  • k-Pi
    4 years ago

    he probably just wants to be friends with you and possibly cares for you and a lot of people. thats how i'm seeing it; he just wants to know how your studies are going to make sure you aren't in a rough spot. i've met people like that and they tend to be pretty nice and open about how they come toward you about things, even if they're in a relationship.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Yes , it may be possible. Thanks:)

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Since he already has a girlfriend I think that if he ever hits on you that you should tell him that you think of him as a more platonic friend, like a brother.

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