What is the longest you have liked/loved someone without them knowing

Most people have had that someone that they really like or that they think that they love, but have been a little bit shy about telling them about their feelings. What is longest that you have waited before telling someone that you have feelings for them?

I Always Tell them Straight Away 1
1 Day or A Few Days 4
1 Week to 1 Month 9
1 Month to 5 Months 11
6 Months to 1 Year 18
1 or 2 Years 27
3 or 4 Years 23
5 Years or More 33
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 )
  • Ramit10

    9 years until one night at a party I got drunk and told them. Best decision I ever made!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Unimportant

      You told "them"? How many are we talking about?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • Ramit10

        Sorry typo. Her* It was 3am and I was tired lol

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Jweezee

    I've the hots for uma thurman for a while now..........i don't think she knows.........sometimes i get the feeling she doesn't even know me.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Avant-Garde

    I've "loved" a male friend since I met him in summer '06.

    He used to be very flirty with me.... but, now I don't even know if he's attracted to the opposite sex. Everyone says he's gay, but a part of me doesn't want to believe it.
    He knows my orientation, but I've never had the courage to ask him his. I'm scared to tell him my true feelings, just in case he doesn't feel the same way....

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Energy

    It's pretty sad to love someone who doesn't know that you love them :/

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Avant-Garde

      It's a terrible feeling:/

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Anime7

    Around 4 months or so and this was last year. I never told her I liked her because I really didn't want a relationship, so I just suppressed my feelings for her until they went away.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • iLikeCarrots

    Im on my 4th year at the moment, she has a boyfriend so im not going anywhere near her until they break up. If they do it..

    Comment Hidden ( show )