What is the chance this was an accident...

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Well my boyfriend whom I love very much and I wanted to try doggie style for the first time... We went at it for a while until he accidentally came out. After a sec of groping he slammed his penis in my butt hole. I was of course in major pain and he said it was an accident and he didn't seem to understand that what he did was kinda a big deal to me...it was pretty traumatizing...we weren't even using lube!!! Of course sex came to a halt and I was so upset I was crying in the bathroom...we talked about it later and he said it was an accident and I made him realize that it did hurt me...he said "I don't understand, people do it all the time" I scoffed and said "with lube!!" then I said "how would you feel if someone shoved something in you ass against your will??" then he got it...I'm just saying does everyone experience these kinds of things? Was it an accident? IIN?

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    There is a very good chance it was an accident. I have accidentally done the same thing before!

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  • courios77
    13 years ago

    Its no plot that guys do that he should not be doing that. If that was his plan tlk about it and do anal only if u r on the same page. If u decide its for u. Then u need good lube GO SLOW and easy. Please make sure u r well cleaned and the feeling is great. Some r assholes for doing shit like that u can tare your self then that will suck. It most likely was an accident. Communicate very important. Married after 13yrs.we tlk about everything.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      I hope you talk--you certainly can't type.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's part of a plot that all guys are involved in

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    Oh yes, accidents do happen.

    I think missing and hitting the pubic bone hurts far worse then slippage into your asshole. And both partners feel that one.

    If it ever comes up again be sure he lets you try it on him first.

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  • MssMurd3r
    13 years ago

    But*

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  • MssMurd3r
    13 years ago

    It's normal and it does happen bur I'm guessing that u guys are young and aren't educated on sex. Make sure if ur gunna try something new u try it right. Regardless he was being insensitive.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    and by him saying that people do it all the time, i am guessing he is referring to porn? i think he needs to realise that real life is not like porn. "accidentally" jam your vibrator up his ass really hard like he did to you and im sure he will truly understand that not everyone does it and enjoys it. accident or not, he should have apologised straight away without questioning how you were feeling.

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    Similar thing happened to me. It just sort of slipped. Major major pain. Not funny. But it was an accident on his part. Was just wet and slippy down there .....

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    A friend of mine was going down on a guy, kind of mistimed things, and stuff flew up her nostril at a key moment. Accidents do happen. If you trust your boyfriend, give him the benefit of the doubt.

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