What is my teacher thinking?

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I've just begun a new school year and was introduced to all my new teachers around a month ago. Everyone has been nice so far and i've been enjoying my classes so far except a problem i've been having in one of my science courses.
Im not sure what my teacher (lets call him Mr. Confusing Guy) has against me. Im not very used to being abruptly cut off mid sentence or harshly spoken to so i have a real problem with him. However, when we are out of class Mr. Confusing Guy goes out of his way to be nice to me. In fact he even found out where my locker was in order to ask me if i had any problems on a quiz. But in class, he always finds a reason to get angry with me and tries to show how much he dislikes me. For example: Everyone got their assignments handed back to them except for me and he said he left it behind in his office. Alright. Everyone makes mistakes. However if he was 100%% sure it was in his office, why wouldn;t he bring it? So then he asks me to come in the morning REAAALLLY early. My school starts way after that so i was not too happy to face his wrath all by myself. Therefore i came a bit later but he got angry and said to come by at lunch to his office. Again, i said ok. When i went to his office however, he said he had given my assignment to another student to give it to me. Now, if he asked me specifically to come to him, why would he make it even harder to have access to my stupid assignment?
Next day, he asks me how i did on a test and he was very friendly. This continued till we got back in class, and once again Mr. Confusing Guy becomes Mr.Mean Guy again. Im just not sure what i have done to deserve this crap. This was just one example of the countless. Its getting in the way of my concentrating. I think if he has a problem with me, he should stop asking me to come to his office and view me as just another student. I dont need him to be extra nice to me outside of class and a bastard once we're back in. Maybe he's just bipolar?
What do you guys think?

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Sounds like he likes you and is struggling with it. If so, he's acting really immature. I'd confront him about it, honestly. Tell him you are confused and bothered by his behavior, but keep it appropriate. It's a little creepy that he found your locker and most likely deliberately left your test behind to get you to come to his office. Be careful of him, but let him know that you don't appreciate this hot-cold behavior of his.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      Thanks for your comment :)
      I think i might have to talk to him about this because he did it again today so i dont think i can take any more of this.... But im not sure if he likes me like that? Granted, he is new to our school and pretty young (28) therefore he may not have developed the fatherly attitude he's supposed to have towards students.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Star writing all this down including dates, times what was done/said. Tell your parents and your principal. This teacher's behaviour toward you is really inappropriate.

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    • freeatheart
      14 years ago

      The only problem is: I odnt know whether he is doing this for some sexual reason or if he has an ACTUAL problem with me. This is why i cant talk to him or the principal about it. I dont want to say something and he refutes it with an arguement which in the end makes me look like im crazy.

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        Document it all the same. You'll have all the dates of what was said/done by whom etc.. This abuse occurs over time. the abuser relies on episodic memory. Maybe you will proceed no further. Maybe you will. But documenting is part of protecting yourself - a good life skill, and one that scares off abusers.

        Even simply saying: "I keep a diary on everything" scares people who are genuinely up to shit (they rely on being able to manipulate, fool & misrepresent the truth). Document.

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      • Iamembarrassed24/7
        13 years ago

        get him on tape then see what the motherfuker has to say. Lmao. or just wait for him have a skee mask and beat the shit out of him with a pillow case filled with soap lol just kidding do not do that. but honestly get a recorder and document his behaviour it is extremely inappropriate. that crazy comment above was suppose to be a joke do not take it seriously. maybe slash his tires or eggs his car. just kidding again, but yeah some teachers are strange for real.

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Ok, he's attracted to you, but he doesn't wanna look suspicious in front of the rest of the class, and he wants to get you alone. So yeah, he's a total creep.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    well i don't think he likes you; i m sure about it!!! i m so sure about it because that's what happened to me when i was in love with my techer!!! i used to be really mean with him, and he was mean with me too!!!! and all that was because i liked him so i think he is doing the same shit

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    Document! Document! This guy is a dangerous whack job. Never be alone with him.

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  • Alaskaraven
    14 years ago

    Are you really that naive? In this day and age, even a 6th grader can see the guy wants to do you. If I were you, I would have some phone convos w/ him, and have my friend, a cop, or parent on the extension [land line] as witnesses.

    That's what I did w/ a teacher, who wanted to "Dive me into his pool" one day while his wife was out. Bastard.

    And you sound young... the post was Oct- did you change teachers at the semester, or have you still had to deal w/ him? If he is treating you this way because he is unaware of his feelings for you, he would NOT be seeking 'alone time' w/ you WAY too early, or at the start of lunch.

    Typical predatory behavior- intimidating, then kind, then mean, then nice. Fucking w/ your head [look up Stockholm syndrome, similar to sex abusers- after awhile, you change your behavior to seek his approval]. They are manipulative.

    He needs to be stopped, at 28, he will be doing this to many others after you leave him.

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  • jackieava121206
    9 years ago

    why dont you go in tell somebody that is over him and get this straighted out seems to me you have let this go on to long

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    His behaviour is very suspicious and inappropriate. It's quite obvious that he has sexual feelings towards you. What you need to do is document his behaviour and report him to authorities.

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  • Sephora
    13 years ago

    Well i think he likes you and he wants to hide that from your others.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He sounds pretty dodgy... I'd be telling someone about this guy. Like, he could just be an areshole who can't make up his mind on whether to be nice or not... but he does sound like a bit of a nutter.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    sounds like you might have a pedo on your hands

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      sincerely hope not.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    Wow. Ur dumb.

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