What if your best friend withheld something big?

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Say I'm your best friend. You tell me everything about yourself and your family and you really trust me. I'm the only friend who hasn't betrayed you. But one day I let you know I haven't told you something really big because I was afraid of your reaction. Say I had a threesome and I never let you know because I didn't know how you'd react (keep in mind at the time you thought only sluts gave blowjob). But things have changed now and you've become a raging freak (having sex with your bf in public and shit). Also a common friend of ours, who is closer to me than you, was part of it and since you're my best friend she let me decide whether we would tell you or not. How would you react if I told you now, 7 months after the incident?

I would be really hurt and never want to talk to you again. 4
I'd be really hurt but I'd look past it 26
I'd be ok with it, I was a prude after all. 24
I'll comment 7
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  • Bja
    10 years ago

    I would say it's not my business

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't be upset, it's none of my business and I wouldn't freak out. If anything I'd be more intrigued as to what led up to my male best friend having sex with my female friend. But really I wouldn't think it a big deal.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      I'm female :/

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      • Anime7
        10 years ago

        I kind of figured, but I just switched the situation to more suit my friendships. I am more close with my male best friends than female ones. It's still the same scenario, sex and what not.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I would say it's none of my business, then murder you in your sleep one day for something completely unrelated.

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    • _Molotov_Cocktail_
      10 years ago

      I approve. Here, this could come in handy:
      *gives Molotov cocktail

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      What makes this downright creepy is that my best friend's cat is called tommy.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        My mom had a crazy ginger kitten named Tommy. He would sneak up on me and then pounce on my face but best of all he would wake up first thing in the morning and take a dump outside my sister's bedroom door everyday when he was little. <---- True story.

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        • Avant-Garde
          10 years ago

          That's quite cute

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            Thanks, to this day that kitten's pooping style brings a smile to my face. ;)

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        It's a Primus song, maybe he/she is a fan.

        "Tommy" is actually "Tom Waits"

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        • elenaki
          10 years ago

          Well it's actually her older sister's cat so I don't know :/

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't care. Now a newfound love of heroin...that's a different story. Dropped that skank real quick.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Caw Caw! Two wings up on that one bird!!!

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      • dirtybirdy
        10 years ago

        The level of scumbaggery that she achieved is disgusting.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I would already had expected it of him. Lol.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      Why is everyone assuming I'm a guy?!

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I'm talking about my friend...

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I'd be fine with it after all your sex life is your private business. Besides I'm not into threesomes unless of course it's me and two young paratroopers. Just kidding, I'm a nice girl now...really I am.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      Are you implying I'm not a good girl?! Uh, guess you're right either way...

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Nope. I was mostly poking fun at myself.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    I'd probably understand why my mentality at the time would affect your decision to withhold those details from our everyday conversation at the time. I would also feel bad for not being more open to conversation that would make me "uncomfortable" for your sake at least.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      That's really sweet, anyone would be lucky to be your friend. I can only hope my friend feels that way. :)

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    • Anime7
      10 years ago

      I haven't seen you on here for what feels like weeks. How have you been?

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        10 years ago

        Shits been crazy. I'm moving out and divorcing my husband, I'm training for the Army and I've been hella busy with those. I do pop on here on the now and then though you probably won't see me after July until December due to Army basic training.

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        • Anime7
          10 years ago

          I remember you told me that you were majoring in criminal justice, what changed? Why join the Army? Also you always talk about how you and your husband were doing well, I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well. But you're a strong person so I'm sure they'll look up eventually.

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          • NeuroNeptunian
            10 years ago

            My major was CJ over a year ago before I changed to Business and I am a semester away from my Associates. I'm joining the Army Reserve so that I can go in as an officer or go active if I hate college.

            My husband and I only did well because I did everything for him. Since moving out, it's crazy! I've been so much happier and less stressed. Don't marry someone so lazy!

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            • Anime7
              10 years ago

              Well I guess the army is a good backup. Also, good job on being one semester away.

              You always talked highly of your husband so I'm kind of shocked that it didn't workout. But if you're much happier now then you were with him, I wish nothing but the best for you then. And I'm glad to hear that you're in a better place.

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            • CDmale4fem
              8 years ago

              So Damn, you sexy in your picture. Can I ask since your done with the "lazy" guy, would there be a chance you would be openminded enough to explore or be accepting of a guy if maybe hes a crossdresser at home ?

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  • Iamagirl
    10 years ago

    I would not do that with my bf because first I don't have one and second I am forever alone and don't have a friend who has a bf either so bye am labs sucks slabs x is s snags s has JS s

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't be upset since it would be none of my business. You can't be blamed for worrying about this person's reactions.

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  • Devyn
    10 years ago

    Hopefully the only thing my friend is hiding from me a is a large penis, and yes, that would hurt :P

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      XD shush

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  • kupokupo
    10 years ago

    Just because you are best friends doesn't mean you have to tell each other everything.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      I know. Writing this makes me realize how stupid it is, but I feel like I'm obliged to tell her as much as she tells me, or as much as she'd like to know. I'm clearly not. Just, stupid feelings...

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      • kupokupo
        10 years ago

        It's understandable but sometimes things are better left unsaid.

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        • elenaki
          10 years ago

          Yeah, I guess you're right. I should just figure myself out before I tell her anything.

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          • kupokupo
            10 years ago

            I hope you're successful. :)

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            • elenaki
              10 years ago

              Thank you :)

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't care.

    Maybe it's just because I never get close enough to people to bother about anything in their lives that doesn't involve/concern me.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    10 years ago

    Wow... You don't control other people. You're not her friend to judge her. She's allowed to do what she wants. I wouldn't care obviously id probably laugh about it.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      What makes you think I want to control other people, or that I'm judging my friend? I was trying to give an example of how she's changed. You're the one making assumptions here.

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      • thecoldhardtruth
        10 years ago

        What makes me think you're controlling her is the fact that your entire post is speculating how you should react to her, when in reality you should have no say in the choices your friends make. The reason why I think you're judging her is because you're making it seem like a big deal this showing you rink it's serious this judging her

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        • elenaki
          10 years ago

          You got it backwards here. I'm the one with the secret. I was trying to see how people would react if I was their best friend and told them something like that.

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  • JeffingAround
    10 years ago

    Who gives a shit

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  • Jeaneathean
    10 years ago

    Do not befriend freaks.

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    • elenaki
      10 years ago

      Don't pick your friends based on their sex lives?

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