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hi everyone,my boyfriend told me that he don't want our relationship we been together for almost 2 years and a week ago just break up but i cant take him out of my mind i think about him every day and night,even when i sleep,at work every were its makes me sick i lost a lot of weight so pls give me so advice. Is it normal to feel this way?
I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you. But I do think it's normal to miss somebody after you were together for 2 years. And its certainly normal that you still miss him right now. I mean, you said you guys broke it off a week ago. Of course you aren't over him yet.
However, you said you lost weight? Don't let this break up go to your head too much. It's gonna hurt right now, but soon you're gonna get past this, and you'll look back & think, "Geez, he wasn't that great after all.". If you wallow in your pain, you'll end up losing good opportunity's to have a great relationship with someone new. Remember that even though you have just ended a two yr relationship, it does not mean that this is the end completely. It's now, just a new beginning.
There is a reason for everything, and I'm sure their's a good reason why you two couldn't work it out. It just wasn't meant to be. And yeah, I know. Nobody likes to hear those words. I've heard them before as well. But the best thing for you to do right now is to let go. You'll somebody much better.
I think you should try to do thing's that will get your mind off of him. Maybe go out with your friends, or watch a funny movie that has NOTHING to do with love/romance, treat yourself to something special at the mall, or sit down and talk with someone about how you're feeling(maybe a parent, older sibling/friend). Sometimes getting thing's off our chests helps a lot better. I feel like the only way you can truly move on, is when you come to fully accept that it is, what it is. You can't get yourself sick over it. There are so many great guys out there. And who knows? Maybe when you're finally over him, you've moved on, and you're with someone else, he might come running back.
"If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't, it never was, and its not meant to be."
Good luck sweetheart...
Well, I know you are a hurting and I wish you well. I can tell you that you need to move forward. You ain't a gonna get over the pain of a break-up overnight. You need to stay busy and focus on some goals that you want to reach out for. Because if that boy hurt you, he was not worth the loving of him any way. You need to love yourself more than to let yourself mope and pine for him. Realize your true worth and respect yourself for that. You WILL find someone better than him. It might not be next week. But if you don't keep your eyes open you might miss your oportunity when it comes along. Me, I am still looking. The love of my life, so I thought, is long gone. I know now he ain't a comin back. So now I am focusing on my kids and on my job. If someone comes into my life that I can love and marry, so be it. All well and good. I will be ready when that time comes. Now I am just living one day at a time and giving me kids all the love I can and my employers the best efforts that I possibly can. I am putting all my energies into that, for now. Time will tell what life and destiny have in store for little me. But I am convinced that I AM strong enough to face whatever comes, be it hell or high water. Be ye so twa, and blessed be!
It's normal and it happened to me last year! It's probably gonna take a long time before you recover. I don't feel pain anymore but I think about it still. Go to the website sheknows.com they have lots of advice that helped me. You'll get over it only time heals. It's extremely normal trust me I have friends who are going though it as well. Just don't contact him. Oh and get urself a journal
It's only been a couple weeks. It'll take time to get over him, but you will
burn everything that you have of him. photos, letters etc. or if you only live in the digital world, delete all his emails and photos from your computer. go out with your girlfriends and just have a good time with them and if you want, go out with a guy to help get over your ex. ex's are never worth your time or tears.
I'm sorry. Its hard to get over ppl sometimes. Hopefully someone else will be more helpful.