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I'm primarily interested in male-female differences, but I'm just interested to know participants answers to the following question:
What makes for the most satisfying sex be it a single lay or many?
| Physically attractive (Please comment) | 7 | |
| That which is forbidden (Please comment) | 13 | |
| A romantic day/evening (Please comment) | 2 | |
| A strong, lasting relationship (Please comment) | 5 |
Classiness. We're talking coat-tails, bowler hats, monocles... the whole shebang. Elbow-length gloves and a cigarette holder? Forget about it, I'm already in bed waiting.
I'm male and, for me, it's both anticipation and a partner who doesn't have any hang-ups and just wants to be open with her body and enjoy herself.
The forbidden, one of the thigns that turns me on when it comes to my kink, I like to be set on fire, I've got a fire fetish.
A big part of the turn on for me is the taboo of what I do, when I'm pouring charcoal sarter fluid over myself knowing I'm going to light it without hesitation and become a human torch. Once I'm on fire, I'll just let it burn for as long as I can before having to put it out.
The forbidden act of burning myself for a woman is a huge turn on, and I've done it before, standing in front of her telling her I'm going to burn for her, lighting myself up, and calmly standing, sitting, or sometimes walking around in front of her as she watches and appreciates it. Her forbidden act of getting turned on watching her patrner commit self immolation in her honor, on her behalf, or even at her request adds a lot to the excitement by deviating so far into forbidden on so many levels.
Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to be caught doign what I do, like if someone walked in and saw me on fire during orgasm like I didn't care I was burning.
I guess you could say
*puts on sunglasses*
that you have a burning desire
YEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Yes I do, literally! And all those euphamisms involving fire, heat, and burning mean something different to me than everyone else.
'Flames of passion' are what surround me when a woman lovingly and kindly tosses a lit match onto my fuel soaked body, or what surrounded a special woman who set herself on fire with me, while we made love in those flames.
'On fire/burning for you' means i'd express my love for a woman by sitting or standing in front of her, dousing myself with fuel, lighting up, and calmly burning for her as she watches. Girls, would your man set himself on fire and calmly burn for you?
Oh, and if anyone wants to see for themselves that I really do it, you're welcome to visit youtube channel 'meanazpimp' and watch me burn myself.
That's really interesting. It's cool that you're open enough to share. :) People need to know that not everyone has the same preferences.
We're all different and like different things, and I wish I could really share the thing that brings me so much joy with others, but it's difficult to find anyone who could enjoy or appreciate such a thing, and I understand why.
I'm trying to be as open as possible because nearly nobody believes I'm serious. Fire for me is way more than simply a turn on, it's intense on every level of emotion, including sexual ones. Most people see the 'dark' side of what I do first, the pain, the fear, the tragedy of being burned, etc, but the things I experience in my acts are happy, joyful, uplifting, warm and loving, and peaceful. I feel free when I'm on fire, free of fear and pain, so far beyond both that all that's left is the most intensely joyful, empowering, and fulfilling feeling I know. And it frustrates me sometimes to no end that I can't share one of the most intense and personally meaningful parts of my life with anyone.
I can't pick one, they are all good.
What makes me weak in the knees is being passionately desired by someone who has no qualms about expressing and indulging that passion. When someone knows that they want me and they don't hold back; when there's a feeling of urgency in their attempt to have me.