What does this mean

Long distance relationship. Been together for a year and long distance for 3 months. What does his statements mean. I just need a third party opinion. No rude or witty comments please, I'm distraught.

ME
:What is going on with us

HIM
: We barely talk these days
: That creates a strain and i honestly feel the furthest away from you that I've ever been

ME
: You don't have feelings for me anymore?

HIM
: I never said i don't
:Just a lot more distant now

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Based on 27 votes (20 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • charli.m

    How often do you get to talk? And how often are you likely to be able to see each other? My boyfriend and I have always been long distance, so it's a different situation - we never had to adjust to being suddenly far apart - but it does take a lot more than a regular relationship. However, it has the potential to make your relationship stronger and deeper. We talk every day because we only get to see each other face to face one month each year. It makes you appreciate each other more and forces you to communicate effectively with each other, because that's all you have available.

    If you can afford to see each other more, that may help you ease into it.

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  • Dorellia

    By being in a long distance relationship, you can't see each other to know what you're doing, and obviously can't feel each other, which makes communication an essential factor for LDR to work and to feel connected.
    I've been in one for 2 years now, the last time i saw my boyfriend was on August.
    And not to take it personally, but i've been feeling how he says lately.
    In summary: talk more; let him know everything about your day and viceversa.
    Lol, hope i helped.

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  • KingRabbit

    That conversation does not flow naturally. Either you left a bunch out or you jump to conclusions

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  • Babybloodknuckles

    It means::move on.

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  • jethro

    What, in your opinion, constitutes "long distance"? And are you actually talking to each other or are you texting?

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  • hgjukbjk

    I think you both live underground.

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