What does this dream mean?

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Ok so a couple months ago there was this girl that i liked we had talked alot so i asked her out and she said that i was a sweet guy and all but she said no...But a couple days ago i had a dream that me and her were daiting. I don't like her anymore So what does this dream mean? There also this girl that i REALLY REALLY LIKE now and the girl in the dream and the girl i like have the same name and are alot alike.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    It means you were sleepin'.

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  • Araikita
    10 years ago

    Of course its 100% Normal. Dreams allow us to explore what the unconscious desires most. Perhaps something we can not have in our waking moments, but the desire does not evade our unconscious. It takes cuts to ask for what you want, and if you get a NO to a date request, try, try, again. If she says no again, well then you have a life lesson in rejection which is not all bad. It happens to the best of us.

    Many will say rejection makes us stronger, but those who say it have never really felt the pain that goes along with it and would never wish it on their worst enemy....so its a bad feeling to experience. This is why we continue to ponder it! Even in sleep!

    In a nut shell......Dreams are telling and you should write them down in the morning when you awake. Keep a note pad and pen, or your electronic device on night stand to jot them down to recall later otherwise we forget them.

    They will give you meaning.....Either the dream means it is something you really wanted and did not get to enjoy, or [could mean] your thoughts are attempting to reveal something about your character, longings, desires, conflicts, fears, personality.

    There are many books about "Dream Themes" that are common.....research online. I can't find my book for this post but just as well as it would be beneficial for you to research on your own. Search for the theme of your dream....not that she is in your dream, but the CONTEXT of which she appears in your dream. For example, what is she doing and what are you doing, and if there is anything else present in the situation......What is the place, what is happening, conversations, actions, or any notable theme to the dream. I say this because as you do research there are searchable themes more so than...is just someone appearing in your dream.

    Let us know what you find!

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  • Vivien5
    10 years ago

    It is said that dreams are made from your thoughts during the day. This means that you are still thinking about the first girl and there's something in your heart that hasn't gone over her. That's also the reason why the second one looks a lot like the first one, because if you couldn't have her, you'd like to have anoher "version" of her.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Damn, you beat me to it!

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    All it means is that you've been thinking about her and you're curious. no big deal

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I hardly put any meaning to dreams. The other day I had a dream I was sold into a futuristic dystopian Japanese illegal baby sitting trade, and the family who bought me just really needed a baby sitter for their kid.

    If I was to interpret your dreams for you, I would say that the similarities between the girl you like now triggered emotions about the girl you liked then, which made you a little bummed she turned you down, so now your good guy brain decided to take you on a date with her to make you feel better. That's my take, but honestly, dreams are weird.

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