What does she want from me?

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I dont get it... I tried too keep my distance but she ain't hearing any of it.

I ask her out, she says no.
Tells me she's waiting for some kind of love ignition between us.

Tells people that ask her why we ain't dating that she isn't ready for a relationship (including her mom).
Yes she introduced me to her family, 1st guy ever btw to the point we can go shopping together, get invited indoors etc.
She bakes 4 me even! not too often though i'm pretty sure she doesn't do it for anyone else.
We practically spend hours of our days together during holidays.
Acts jealous when I get phone calls/texts from other girls.
Admits she likes me too.
Then gets another boyfriend.
Kisses me while she's still in a relationship with him.

I've practically been with her through her bad moments, know almost everything there is to know about her... majority of her secrets most people would probably laugh off...

am i just something to dump baggage on? i don't even know anymore.. Like why she insists on communicating... I mean i already told her its not nice for me but she, flippin hurts to look at someone u like so badly so close to you and... i think i've said enough. Need help/advice of some sort. Asap.

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  • jucedaguy
    11 years ago

    Walk, don't turn back. No matter what you hear behind you as you walk. There are some things in life, that are sadly better left behind you.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Your in the friend zone she is just using you you are her teddy bear. Cuddles but no sex.

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  • WoodsLives
    11 years ago

    Leave.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    She is stringing you along, man.
    I would say, get over her. She wants someone to be there for her and to love and adore her but she can't figure out whether or not she really wants that.

    Until she can figure it out, keep being friends with her but try to get over your feelings for her. If she comes around, she comes around, but don't let that stop you from seeing other people and having other relationships. She needs to know that you are not her backup, you are your own person.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    This mite sound fuckd up but my ex was coming over jus to fuck me n hang out n b clingy when I stopd talking to her cuz I felt used.bfor that she was pushing me away wen I was really gd to her n she only came around wen I was over it like X100

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    Just grt over it already by getting drunk and burning down the house where she lives.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    She sounds like the kind of girl who would be hooked on you if you stopped giving her attention. She think she's got you wrapped around her finger, but the moment you try and leave her alone, she will come crying for you to stay by her side. When that happens, the ball is in your park and you've got all the control. She's taking you for granted, and doesn't think she will ever lose you. Just show her you're not disposable and got live your own life. She we will be back begging at your door step in no time. If you play your cards right, she'll be yours. If you still want her that is.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Maybe she plans to marry you someday, but wants to fool around with everyone else first.
    I wouldn't accept that.
    I think you should get rid of her and make her realise what she's lost.

    Life gives us many opportunities. I'm sure you'll find someone better.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    It sounds like she is using you.

    I think you should give her an ultimatum, and (this is important) stick to what you say no matter what!

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    She likes you but doesn't know it. She sounds young and inexperienced, and cannot sort through her feelings. If you back off, but are friendly when you see her, in time she may be able to see her feelings for you and other people clearly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    let her miss you

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    • plum6
      11 years ago

      short and simple but I agree. At this point keeping your distance is the only thing that might make her realize what she would be missing if you are not around. She obviously takes his company and interest for granted at this point.

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  • acidlor
    11 years ago

    Yeah, you're the poor chap who has to deal with her. Not saying that she's a terrible person, because she might have mixed feelings or understand what her actions are doing to you. Tell her that she needs to make a decision once an for all because you can't be her go to guy forever. Sure you all can be great friends, but that's ruining your life. You can't be waiting around for someone who might just break your heart in the end.

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  • bigfatpoo
    11 years ago

    FFS, i can't help you if you don't speak in proper sentances and proper english... i didn't understand anything in that...

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