Ask Your Question today
I know a guy who has not had sex in 3 years. He is in his late 20s. I am just wondering, what would that feel like? Would he be more or less horny than if he was regularly having sex? Also, does it have an effect on one's mental health?
| Years, or months, no difference | 33 | |
| Other | 14 |
You begin to feel like you don't remember what it's like to have sex in the first place.
Gee, how long were you alive before you got laid? 3 years? I think you know perfectly well what it feels like not to have sex for somethning like 18 years, don't you.
You start to forget not so much sex, but the idea that someone other than you ever had regular access to all of your body and it's fluids and nakedness.
I have been married for 35 years, we are both in our early sixties. My wife is tall (five foot ten inches), blue eyes, slim and attractive, 36C breasts with large pink areola, nice long legs, very nice big white arse, hairy pussy with lips that hang down slightly, and underarm hair - very fuckable. Besides me she fucked two other men. For the first ten years we fucked on a fairly regular basis, always with me taking her in the missionary position and usually me fucking her from behind and pulling out at the last minute and cumming on her back. She looks gorgeous when fucked from behind. She has had two abortions. She has psychological issues and never climaxed. Oral with no swallowing but not anal. I stopped fucking her and for the last 25 years have been sucking cock and swallowing cum behind her back. Since I retired I masturbate on a daily basis, sometimes twice in a day. I have never been able to relax enough to take a cock up my arse.
I can totally relate, as it has been 2 years for me. The sad thing is I'm married for 20+ years. I have always been a horny guy, but I can tell you that it makes me a lot more horny. Thank god for porn & my right hand. My wife just went from liking sex when she was younger to not really caring at all. Excuses abound from it hurts to you name it... I got sick of trying awhile ago. Short of forcing myself on her, I have to go elsewhere or play the solo act. I think it definitely fucks with your mind. As I have posted before, I have been fantasizing being with a man lately. The porn has turned into gay porn. It is a big step, but one that I feel I must make sooner than later. It scares the shit out of me for two main reasons. One being that I "hook up" with the wrong guy and two being that if I somehow would manage to find a good guy that I would like sex with a man all too much. Like I said, it fucks with your mind really bad.
It depends. I didn't lose my virginity until 20. Before then it drove me nuts not experiencing sex.
I was with that girl for a few months and then abstinent again until 22 with a one night thing. Then got laid again about a year later. Another year went by and had a few nights with another girl. Another year went by and I got a girlfriend I was with for almost 4 years. Currently it's been another 2.5 years and I have mostly stopped caring by now. I am 30 now.
So while it used to drive me nuts, after a while I stopped caring.
While serving in the Military, fighting on the war front I was away from home for 2 years. During that 2 years and my loyalty to my spouse (who is now my ex) I didn't engage in any form of sexual activity. I can tell you from experience as a male that the initial engagement is extremely exciting however the first ejaculation is extremely painful and may make him reluctant to try again that day and possibly a few additional days.