What do you think of the female orgasm?

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Is it normal that I can always have clitoral orgasms by oral sex (cunnilingus), but I am never able to achieve an orgasm just by vaginal sex? I don't think it should be an issue but people surely make it sound like it is.

I only have clitoral orgasms 40
I only have vaginal orgasms 2
I have both clitoral and vaginal orgasms 30
I am not able to achieve any kind of orgasm 7
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  • Queeny
    12 years ago

    Is it normal, yes and no. Its hard for females to achieve orgasms through sex because our stimulation areas need more attention and precision in order for us to achieve orgasm. A man can easily cum in 5 min (or less) because the head of his penis is very much exposed during intercourse and is constantly being stimulated no matter how he uses it. In order to achieve vaginal orgasm (g-spot orgasm) the man has to stimulate the g-spot constantly. The g-spot is a small sponge-like area about an inch or so inside on the roof of the vagina. If a man knows what he's doing, you will have a vaginal orgasm. I too was like you. I only knew clitoral orgasms and after a while I pondered the thought of if vaginal orgasms actually really existed. Then, I met my husband, and I no longer wondered. lol

    ....its amazing

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    • 7789dur
      12 years ago

      I thought the g-spot didn't exist until last night... It sure as hell does!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I take it you husband is a bit curvy?

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      • Queeny
        12 years ago

        But still, its not about the size of the penis really. As long as it can reach the the g-spot (which isnt deep inside of the vagina at all) thats all that matters

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      • Queeny
        12 years ago

        LOL no, but he is pretty well endowed

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  • t99206
    12 years ago

    the what? as long as I cum, fuck it.

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    • DestroyedSepulchre
      12 years ago

      hahaah! :)

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  • thegift
    12 years ago

    As long as I bust a nut I could care less.

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  • FourAMandstillgoin
    12 years ago

    Orgasms are all in the mind and wich nerve stimulation, so if theres an emotional problem or a stressor that can stop you from reaching orgasm.

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    It's normal for lots of girls. When you're having sex, rub your clit or have him rub it for you, that should help you orgasm during intercourse.

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  • kelseyt
    12 years ago

    I can't orgasm. I do masturbate (clit rubbing) but it feels good without orgasm. Anyway, I'm asexual, so what do I expect?

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    • I_steal_free_bread
      12 years ago

      I expect you to shut the fuck up

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  • theinsecurekiwi
    12 years ago

    no v-gasms for me :(

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    • I_steal_free_bread
      12 years ago

      its ok we still accept you

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I've never had a vaginal orgasm...I fake it 100%...I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years and after the first time he asked if i went and i said yeah! and the lie just continued from there. I think it's too late to tell him. He's well endowed but I don't even know where the g spot is and apparently he doesn't either.

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  • Kweechie356
    12 years ago

    It is one of mans many weaknesses

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Big guys work for me, but then I can orgasm from a nice summer breeze.

    A friend of mine's boyfriend has a penis with a hefty upward curve. She says that stimulates her spot, but I've never had a chance to test him.

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    • bbwinn
      12 years ago

      woah, don't even think about testing him, if she is your friend.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Good friends always share.

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    • Queeny
      12 years ago

      Yes a significant curvature definitely makes it easier also a big well defined "head" of a penis with or without curvature works the same

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It can be easily faked

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