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What do you think of people who just care about the money someone has versus who they are.
| I think it is pathetic. You are selling yourself for money. | 70 | |
| Whatever, everyone is free to do what they want. | 50 | |
| If someone wanted to pay my bills, I would date them! | 23 |
most guys with money only date girls for their looks anyway (think Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, that old billionaire Anna Nicole Smith married) so if it's a shallow relationship on both ends (girl wants money, boy wants hottie) i don't see why only the person seeking financial stability should be on the receiving end of insults and negative stereotypes.
Yes, also true, lol. I was thinking of the usual pairing of (male)old/rich with (female) young/attractive, but of course, if the rich person was someone with brains and usually good judgment it would only add to the comical effect.
In the end there is no fool like the one who wants to be fooled.
So people with money only go for good looking people? You go for good looking people too, should you be receiving negativity for it?
Not all of them, I've seen a few who marry within their league. But the majority of "gold diggers" attract rich shallow guys who know what they are getting into and know what it's going to cost but they don't care, so long as they have arm candy or are getting a good lay. I go for intelligence, sense of humor and political views that are more or less equal to mine,and yes looks are obviously a factor although the men i've dated aren't attractive in the conventional sense (some of my major crushes include Bill Clinton and Conan O' Brien, both men that most people would not categorize as "hot" but i find incredibly sexy nonetheless). I think everyone goes for looks to some degree and to say otherwise is just lying. I don't think people should receive negative feedback for being shallow, since the majority of us would never date or fuck someone we didn't find at least slightly attractive. I just don't think it's fair for women (or men) to be labeled and seen in a negative light when they date someone solely for money if their partner is dating them only for their looks (sort of a trade-off). That's what i mean by a shallow relationship, neither person involved really bothers to look past the looks or the money since these superficial things are enough for them. I think we are genetically programmed to go for looks, financial stability, and intelligence because these things would provide good genetic material to pass on so being shallow can be good to some degree . I don't think there's anything wrong with dating for just looks or money, so long as both people know the score.
I think it's fine as long as it's out there on the table. Both parties....
Sometimes it's the person with the money that is up to no good!! It happens often. Maybe even more often, than dishonest gold digging.
So the person with the money is the person that's in the wrong for the gold digger?
No, no...there's gold-diggers, and there's also people who use their money to buy off, abuse, control or bully their partner (who may or may not be a gold digger).
I don't think there's anything wrong with gold-digging as long as you're being honest, and many people do enjoy a muitually benefitting relationship-arm candy/sex in exchange for money/lifestyle.....BUT-there's always something wrong with someone who uses money in an abusive manner. Just as there'd be something wrong about being a dishonest gold-digger.
Yeah. Is it coincidental that the multi-millionaire suspiciously dies 4 weeks after they got life insurance/or will?
It's only wrong to be deceitful about it, making someone think you're with them for more than just the money. If you're an honest gold-digger, fair enough.
I don't understand why people think it's wrong to "sell their bodies" for money. People sell there mind/intelligence all the time, so to speak.
I doesn't bother me as much as most people . But it REALLY gets under my skin when the gold digger is Ike oh I'm not with him for his money , I'm with him because I love hi. Like yeah right ,get outta here . Once a gold digger ALWAYS a gold digger .
She take my money when I'm in need
Yeah she's a trifling friend indeed
Oh she's a gold digger way over town
That dig's on me
Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger
But she ain't messin' with no broke niggas
i used to have a roommate that was a stripper, and she was a horrible gold digger! omg she had guys. at every turn she had guys falling all over themselves to be with her. and she was like, keeping score like a little twirp that has notches on his bed post, she'd be all laughing, 'haha I suckered this guy out of this...' when I felt bad for the guys that genuinely liked her but she only cared about the cash. her tables turned when she got pregnant and totally lost her looks. she was a 9.9 on a scale of 1-10 and after was a 2 or so, stretch marks so bad into her calves!! in hindsight it was her karma. she wasted her time and never found what really matters which is someone to care for her. it's sad, she is truly pitiful.
...I've never met any gold-diggers, so I don't really have that much of an opinion :/ At least the ones that admit their gold-diggers and be honest about it.
They're just bitches who think they have a GOLD MINE between their legs.Avoid them at all cost.
I obviously want my partner to be ambitious, hard worker, and successful. But that's just one of the many qualities he has. I want to be in love with the person I am with.