What do you think about my situation (needs proper advice not trolls)

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I'll be totally honest :)

I really love this party guy that I've known for a year thanks to my family. I really really really really liked him since then and eventually fell in-love with him. I was thinking of asking him out and tell him what I feel, but then recently I just figured out that He just broke up with his girlfriend for 2 weeks only.
I know he is a party guy and I know guys like this treats relationships like a bottle of beer that never runs out in a bar.
I am smart and I know the possibilities but I really have this feelings for him despite his attitude. *sigh* the power of love is overflowing in my veins

I'm 19, never experienced dating and relationships...

- Should I continue my plan of telling him what I feel?
- Should I think of the possibilities (negative or Positive)
- Must I stop liking him even though I'm so in to him?
- Or should u guys comment some advice to help me out

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Hey, ya never know until ya try. Dont think just do. Usually when I do that the police are involved but for you it should be all right.

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    • iguessimnormal
      12 years ago

      Police involved? sounds scary lol! But then I have to think... see If I did not think I'd be telling him earlier that I Like him while he was still with his GF that I didn't know.
      Thanks for the comment :)

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  • biancaalisoun
    12 years ago

    Tell him. You only live once. What can you lose? Once he knows, if he doesn't feel the same at least you can move on. And if he does feel the same, then everything worked out great! Goodluck.

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    • iguessimnormal
      12 years ago

      but then later on if it doesn't work Its gonna be extremely awkward. I want to maintain our closure. OW and thanks :)

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  • YourBF
    12 years ago

    Well,I agree with Biancaalisoun,Just tell him what you feel or try to make your relationship stronger before telling him how you feel.I'd suggest that forget him cus like you said he's a party guy and GIRLS ARE LIKE TOYS TO HIM!!!Goodluck

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    • iguessimnormal
      12 years ago

      thanks, thats a good one! With what u said its just 50% 50% :)) TO like or not To like. Im gonna try tho.

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  • lufa
    12 years ago

    it's not love little girl, it's called infatuation

    if he's a party animal, you will be a notch on his belt and have his kid he'll never visit

    god what is wrong with girls? please grow a brain and don't get yourself into trouble

    if you're a good girl, find a decent guy who'll treat you like gold and is going somewhere in life

    the party animals always end up being burnt-out train wrecks by the time they hit their 30s

    while smart guys like me who study hard end up driving the Benzes and living in mansions :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      the feeling of infatuation for almost 2 years? I don't think so. Actually He's the smartest guy in the block. This post is a bit old, he improved and learned his lessons tho.

      Might as well not brag with what you are rather be a role model.

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      • lufa
        12 years ago

        points the same though-it's not love if he doesn't love you back-it's just infatuation.

        anyways good luck with him if you decide to pursue the guy.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago

          yeah... still thinking about it till now :'(
          thanks for your comments :D

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          • lufa
            12 years ago

            You're welcome. Don't worry I'm in a similar situation, I got the hots for this gorgeous secretary at my work.

            She gives me enough attention to let me think there is something between us-but then doesn't give me a chance to ask her out. lol When I get the right opportunity, I will.

            She's not the hottest women I've come across or dated in my life, but with her flirtatious and sexy personality it just makes her that much more attractive.

            Hopefully I'll get to tell her about the all trouble she put me through the day I get her in my bed. ;)

            As for the party-guy if you really like him that much, make a move (and sorry if I was bit crude earlier.)

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            • mystery7
              9 years ago

              I can relate to that exactly!

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              12 years ago

              Woah nice one! Oh come on Its valentines! take her out, she has no reason to say no.
              Personality comes first then the gorgeous body.
              Tell me what happens next :)) Hope your plans work!

              Oh and that party-guy... I'm still figuring things out. Its better to really really know him before bursting out my feelings haha. Its not a big deal tho.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    9 years ago

    I would powershart four times

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