What do you think about: "one night stand" relationships?

It's pretty cool. I do it constantly 68
I have done it before, but I do not like it 28
I do not care 53
Nooo, that is not for me 90
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Comments ( 42 )
  • anti-hero

    One night stand relationship is an oxymoron. Those concepts are opposites.

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  • Where's the option for I would like to do it but it rarely happens.

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  • CreativeThinker

    NO its not for me I want a complete mental match with a girl before going into bed with her

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    • jass4444

      Just remember if you are both too much alike . . . one of you isn't needed!!

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    • noid

      Are you a guy?

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      • CreativeThinker

        yes

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    • Shugaboom

      Absolutely!

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      • CreativeThinker

        and that also guarantees I never get laid with a hooker... ha ha ha

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  • thegypsysailor

    When you travel with a band, that's about all you get, most times.
    I have had some very, very intense and loving relationships that only lasted 5 or 6 hours. I don't think it's about length in some ways, but about connection and intensity. For that moment of time I could not have loved them any more than I did, and it was heartbreaking to go.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Other:

    I use to do this and frankly enjoyed it.
    However I'm not single anymore so it's in my past.

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    • Shugaboom

      You're pretty honest!

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  • DannyKanes

    Who cares as long as you're having fun and no one's getting hurt :)

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    • Shugaboom

      You're so right. Nevertheless I couldn't imagine myself getting laid with a woman I do not know at all, but I'm pretty conscious that is how world works.

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    • keyz

      That's like saying who cares about your in a gun fight and no one gets hurt. You forget how much stds are involved in one night stands more than any other situation. Someone will usually get hurtbefore your career is over either emotionally or physically

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    • dom180

      I'm very surprised this was thumbed down :/

      +1

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  • Lilbit2much

    I don't believe in one night stands. I think they're just for younger people who don't know what they want in a relationship, if you're still having them past 30, grow up.
    I personally could never have meaningless sex with someone I don't even know. I want more out of it than just one night.

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  • White___October

    It's perfect, I do it all the time. I don't think I can handle a long term relationship. One sex partner only, beh!

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Not my kind of thing, but I can see the appeal sometimes. If you do it, use protection and dont give your real address.

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  • Tyger

    I think one night stands are totally degenerate and a hotbed for disease. Nature provided the ability to self satisfy without that risk. And I can't see how one nighters can ever be about connection and I think people are delusional if they think that's what it is- it's just biological sex and can't be anything else but that.

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    • Shugaboom

      There are no words to describe how identified I feel with your opinion.
      I do not judge people who do that, but I definitely can't see me getting laid with a completely unknown person, just for "fun".

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  • volvonut84

    It's the best...especially around the holidays and Valentines. You get to spend your $$$ on yourself!!

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  • suky

    Let's go to bed and see if we like each other - that's my motto.

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  • mollymae22

    Not if you're married. In today's world, a one night stand could be dangerous. If a person is that loose, they probably want your money too!

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    • suky

      I suppose I'm loose - an old-fashioned judgmental word - but I'm honest, kind and good-natured according to the reviews

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  • ???:-p

    I'm in a relationship with a girl but its always on my mind that I wanna do 1 nights stands as well! I no that's harsh but I like different things than my gf does!

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    • Shugaboom

      I "understand" you, but my advice even you are not asking me for one, is that you should talk to you girlfriend about those things you want she does for you. Cause that is better than One Night Stand "relationship".
      Remember I am just saying...

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      • ???:-p

        Good advise and iv taken it in! Even tho iv talked to her and I no were I stand! She doent like anything, as she would say strange in bedroom!

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  • peoplearewatching

    I go to the bar with the sole intention of getting laid. I'm like a lion going after its prey...all i want to do is get laid by any woman that will open her legs an let me fill her up.

    I also like peanut butter

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    • Shugaboom

      I do not support One Night Stands, but I respect your opinion, mate.

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  • volvonut84

    Bang it like a screen door in a hurricane. The best sex is when you don't have to worry about being considerate...just bone it like you own it.

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    • Shugaboom

      Do not you worry about STI?

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  • Riddler

    "One night stand" means not a relationship. Why they call it a "One night stand". I not sure what you are missing here.

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    • Shugaboom

      Ok. Just ignore the word "relationship". Easy, isn't it?

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      • Riddler

        So just what we think of a one night stand? Well its not the best thing. A lot of people probably become rather attached and hurt by it. However some might not care and just sleep around. Depends who you ask. I have never done it.

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  • kayathewolf

    If that's the kind of thing you enjoy, I see no reason not to. As long as you inform the other party that a long term relationship is off the table before hand... though personally, I mate for life.

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    • Shugaboom

      Like I said before, even I do not do that, it makes a lot of sense the way you see one night stands "relationships"

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  • Holzman_67

    In my early twenties I slept around alot. I enjoyed it for many years but towards the end I started feeling a compelling emptiness inside. Nowadays I'm just alone.

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    • Lilbit2much

      That's where one night stands will get you.. Alone and wanting more one night stands. Sorry for your loneliness..

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    • Shugaboom

      Even I do not do that, I understand you and I feel sorry for your emptiness. Hope you can "fill it", and feel better afterwards.

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  • jass4444

    Too many guys and gals for that matter, just want [need] to get laid. No cares after a few drinks. It may be that there are unintended one-night stands as it is. That may be unavoidable. It can be a nice thing to have an active sexual partner eventhough you may not live together but share the physical intamcy and most aspects of life together and enjoy each others company.

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  • Doggone66

    If I lust after a chick wearing cute clothes and heels and can pick her up I will bang the shit outta her and savour the memory!

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    • Cobaltgum18

      You are a drain on society.

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