What do you make of this love/sex life?

People always tell me I'm shallow or a man whore and I think that's ridiculous. Please tell me what you think and don't be too judgmental.

So my first taste was a girl I met at work senior year of high school. We were kinda close for a few months and over the summer I tried to break the ice and asked her politely for sex. She seemed scared and eventually started crying and hasn't seen me since except at work but she avoids me and won't respond to any of my calls or texts.

First year of college now, I meet another nice girl my age, and she seemed very slutty to me. Only a week in and the third time I saw here, we had sex and I think we both enjoyed it especially myself. 5 or 6 more times of meeting later and I caught here showing signs if intimacy with another guy. She seemed upset and thought I would hate her but I said I didn't mind if she still had sex with me on the regular. People have called me shallow for staying with her and i don't see the problem. I have also had 2 or 3 other hook-up type partners who I saw maybe once a month or so throughout college and now I am 25. I still keep in contact with a few hookups from then but see them rarely and have left the one I knew well and met first go completely(she didn't care) because I have since moved a way for work. I have since met two other women and it seems that they think I'm shallow for wanting sex and refusing to give up other partners I have for their sake. I never want to get married or have kids and even don't really see the long term value of a 'close' relationship, I just want my sex, badly. And I have it with people who are attracted to me and know that's all I want also. It is my choice to love this way and I have enjoyed it. What do you guys think?? Am I super shallow or is it just my preference?

Your fine, it's just your preference 4
Indifferent 2
Seems a little shallow but not a huge deal 5
You are shallow as fuck 2
You are a horrible person for this 1
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Comments ( 18 )
  • litelander8

    "Love this way"... it's love for you and your cock. But maybe if women are saying from the beginning that they're looking for a monogamous relationship, you should practice some self control and not sleep with them.

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    • I know. They didn't say it outright but they kind of just assumed I was commited to them, at least it looked like. Which non-surprisingly didn't last long

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  • Mrown

    I think that's what they call an open relationship

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    • I know. Is there anything against your morals about it? Because I don't see why people think it's an issue

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      • Mrown

        No, as long as you make it clear for the other person that you don't want anything "more".

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        • Yep

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    IrishPotato voted "youre shallow as fuck"

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    • Well thats rather nice to know. Is he your second account or what? What a random comment

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

        No he just hates slutty women and will post something like "get away from any girl that will let you do this" hes hilarious

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        • litelander8

          You're spot on, Guy.

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        • Yes, he is quite the character. He is funny sometimes though and comments a lot so I like him. He can judge me all he wants honestly. I don't think most 'slutty' behavior is wrong, it is a choice.

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  • IrishPotato

    No

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    • That wasn't the question! Would you like to try again? Three strikes your out!

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      • IrishPotato

        No.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Dont ask a girl politely for sex. Talk about a turnoff. Get her over your place and try to make a move on her. Have some drinks with her first.

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    • Maybe should have tried that actually, no the drinking part though.(I don't drink) But back then I was too young to know the ropes and just didn't want to offend her or get in trouble somehow. How dumb I was when I was 18! Lol.

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

        Its a double edged sword because if you make an advance on her its technically sexual harrassment. The line between making a move and sexual harrassment is very thin. If you go in for a kiss she may be cool but then if you rub her ass during the kiss she may go on CNN and sue you.

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        • CNN Lol! Yes good points. Hook ups make it less awkward than 'real' relationships when you have sex for the first time, because each person knows why they are there and they wouldn't come if they didn't want sex. Hook ups FTW!

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