What do you do when you encounter a "low talker"?

Low-talker-meaning a person who is barely audible, even after being continuously made aware of it by either suggestion (huh?what?pardon? VERY often), frustration or blatantly being told so.

I'm asking because I got a low-talker for a cashier today and, man, it was-well-maddening. And it made me think of the Sienfeld episode in which Jerry gets bamboozled into wearing the "puffy shirt" because he just nodded in agreement with the low-talker.

Please comment! What do you do? Or are YOU the low-talker?

I just nod, agree, uh-huh, nah, wow, etc. 12
I ask them to repeat themselves, but just ONCE.Then nod. 34
I keep asking them to repeat no matter how many times. 18
Depends. Do I NEED to hear what they have to say? 39
Tell the person bluntly to fucking speak up already! 23
Go on a vicious rant after a few attempts to hear them. 2
Start jerking off. I bet they'll holler then! 14
Other (Add a comment) 7
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Comments ( 17 )
  • joybird

    haha. This is easy for me as I went totally deaf in one ear last Christmas. I just say, "I'm sorry, I can't hear you coz I'm half deaf." Then they slow down, speak up - and talk to me like I'm an idiot :o)

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  • KokoroComplex

    I'm a low talker, too, but I still make other low talkers or other people I can't hear that aren't necessarily low-talkers repeat what they said until I can hear them.
    Them: ajsdfbajahs
    Me: I can't hear what your saying
    Them: asudfjsdahsdf
    Me:...... I still can't hear you
    Them: afsdafjkhgsdafk
    Me:............. I can't hear anything

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    • SugarCharm

      Me and my brother are low talkers. That's how our conversation sounds like on the phone.

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      • KokoroComplex

        If I need to or want to hear what they're saying I'll say, "I can't hear you" or something like that, but if I'm uninterested, I'll just nod and move on.

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  • dappled

    I've never heard the term "low-talker" before but I know exactly what you mean. It's embarrassing to keep asking someone to repeat themself so you start going by body language and just give whatever reaction you think they want. Bursting out laughing when someone was telling me about how their dad had died has made me think the embarrassment of repetition is probably the safest bet.

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  • Say "WUT!" like lil John until they speak up or run away.

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  • unconsciously mimic them so after awhile the 2 of us are both straining to hear each other and both lip reading, 2 can play that game

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  • aimedwrong

    I allow myself a few repeats before just giving up and pretending to hear them. Most stubbornly low talkers have already been told that they talk too low, so they shouldn't hold it against you.

    Either way, you'd think that constantly having to repeat things would teach them to talk louder....

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  • Makemenuts

    Ask them to speak up and if they don't just tell them to get a voice. Then I move on.

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  • Legion

    I agree, it sucks, but then again, they probably hear their own voice as louder then what you hear.

    I'm naturally a loud talker, and its frustrating cause my voice sounds too quiet to me, so I think I'm talking too quietly. I try to be nice with asking a low talker to speak up, cause I want to hear what they say, but I know how frustrating it is when someone yells at you for talking too quietly or loudly.

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  • TyLee

    Encountering a low talker sucks! There is this girl who works at a restaraunt that I go to to pick up food and she is always at the counter. She is a low talker and a close talker. I can hardly hear her and I also feel like she is going to kiss me everytime I go in there because she gets so close and in my face lol It's so weird.

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  • ToxicCrayons

    After the fifth time saying, "what," I just walk off. If they can't raise their voice, it's obviously not important enough for me to be standing around for.

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  • fappydaze

    My wife is often a low talker. I could write a book on this shit. fml.

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  • I chose the "Do I NEED to hear what they say", but I wish I could truly answer "Start jerking off. I bet they'll holler then!" hahaha. That made me laugh. Usually I just ask them to repeat twice and if I still don't understand then either "Mm" in agreement or just laugh, whichever I think (or hope) is the most appropriate.

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  • supaflyafro

    tell em that maybe theyre better at texting

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  • My golden rule is say 'what' or 'huh' three times. After that its 'Wow' or 'Oh really?' while nodding along...

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs

    I am a low-talker, at least at the age I'm currently at. It's extremely annoying for me, I so wish I could have a deep, audible voice. Whenever I try to speak with gusto I just sound like I'm half-shouting, which weirdly doesn't help much.

    I dunno what people should do when they can't hear me, moving closer is a good idea, I often stand quite close to people when I'm talking with them.

    Don't flip out at "low-talkers" because you can't hear them, it makes me feel less confident and very self-conscious and some people (like me) really can't help it.

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