What do you do when u cant be with the one u truly want?

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Idk what to do its been 4 years since iv known this person, we used to be very close but are no longer friends. I truly wanted to be with them but I never really explained my feelings but I had told them I really did love them and I secretly meant it more than friends. We had a rocky friendship with this person being an ass at times but I never stoped loving them. I see pics on facebook sometimes of this person with someone and I get an overwhelming feeling of anger build up with some jealousy. Iv tried to forget them and despite the fact we r no longer friends I cant foget how I felt and how badly I just want to be with this person…What do i do?? is it normal :(

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You have to get over it, and move on with your life! I know that's not what you want to hear, but you need to grieve the loss and move forward with your life. Accept that you're powerless over your ex friend and you will find your self feeling much happier in life. See a therapist if necessary.

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  • drego551
    8 years ago

    Two words: MOVE and ON.

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  • LostAndBroken
    9 years ago

    You just carry on as best you can. I've been doing it for many years now.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    Keep the body in my freezer.

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    If you can, tell them how you really feel. Rejection will give you closure. Approval will open the door.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Steven Stills said it best, "And if you can't be with the one you love, honey, Love the one you're with"

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      9 years ago

      are yall sure it werent credence?

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        There you go, trying to think again. Remember, your doctor warned you that it was bad for your health, to do that.

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        • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
          9 years ago

          there you go with that tired ole line when yallre knowin who the superior intellect is in this here conversation

          it must really kill yall to be outthought and outsmarted by some dum ole hick round every corner

          specially since all yall ever seem to be here for is to brag brag brag bout yallself

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          • thegypsysailor
            9 years ago

            Ho hum, covers mouth, yawning. so boring.

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            • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
              9 years ago

              thats always the second act ho hum so predictable

              id say some daytime tv grade pop psychology is in order next

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    If you cling onto memories you wont ever get over this person. Focus on why it didn't work out and why said person is less good.
    It always works for me.

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    Options: a) Distraction, b) Suicide, c) Enduring the pain.

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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
    9 years ago

    Don't remain friends with this individual or the feeling will persist. Listen to depressing love songs to purge your emotions(in a painful way it makes you feel better). Focus on improving yourself as a human being. Work actively toward achieving your long term goals. With time, someone else will come along and your feeling for the other individual may fade.

    Essentially the same thing as dealing with a break-up.

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