What do i do ?

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Hi,
I really need help ...
I am married for 8 years with 2 beautiful children.. My husband loves me a lot and gives me everything i want in life .. the only thing is sometimes he is short temperd n travells a lot which i hate the most about him..
In 2009 I met a guy on facebook, we started chatting n then he took my mobile number and we started talking on the phone, looking each other on the webcam, we started sharing problems and everything, he is also married with 2 kids , he told me he didn't luv his wife.. we both shared a to z topic from work to family.. after sometime he started controlling me like closed my facebook id, changed my accounts, stopped me from going out, made me wear what he wanted , he chnged my more than 6 mobile numbers for such little mistake i made , he stopped me going out with my husband, when i had sex with my husband he became pissed off, for my side i truly loved him but he was very very stubborn, we both r miles apart so meeting was just thrice .. and when we met we got involved in everything, my husband was away then and he came to my house stayed with me for 7 days and i am regretting till today.. after he left , he caught me having a secret mobile number for my family n friends coz i wasnt allowed talking to anyone.. for tht reason he started abusing me, never trusting me again and controlling me much more.. i asked him to break up and he said breaking is ok but we will have to involve both our family.. he forced me to tell my husband and i had to tell my hubby a to z.. can u imagine my husband forgave me said i shouldnt repeat n never talk to this guy again.. i changed my number account n what not.. but after somedays i was missing him too much so checked my e mail n he had mailed me to say sorry etc n i replied him again we started talking for a day when my husband asked me n told me to touch quran tht i m nt in touch with him. sameday i e mailed hm tht we cant go on anymor n thts it.. m really afraid n guilty now.. he has my pics and old accounts..
is it normal that i still want to go out with him?

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  • BfingIToucher
    12 years ago

    I can't really find anything redeeming in your behavior. I feel tremendously sorry for your husband. Was that man with your KIDS for seven days? Seriously bad mothering there. And I can't figure out how this guy could be so controlling from long distance. Do you have no sense of yourself, no idea of who you are? There's definitely a whole lot more to this story. Please put your kids before yourself. They don't deserve the damage you're doing as you are floundering about trying to figure out what YOU want.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    You're a fucking idiot.

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    You fucking piece of garbage you're a fucking low life your husband should have left you you weak spineless pathetic bitch

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Here is what you need to do... Realize that this guy is controlling and abusive. Never ever contact him ever again. You don't deserve that. Then decide if you want to stay with your husband or not. If you choose divorce you can live alone and hook up with as many people as you want. It's your life and your choice. But at this point you are just asking for drama.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i agree with bfingtoucher and you are a dingbat

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  • CoolKid23
    9 years ago

    You're a bitch. I feel sorry for your kids.

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  • SilverJayeWolf
    12 years ago

    Personally I think you don't deserve your husband's forgiveness; he's a damn good husband to forgive you after that. Do what you want, but you're digging yourself into a deep hole that is going to repel your kids and spouse eventually. Good luck, bitch.

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  • XxDemonicaxX
    12 years ago

    think about it how bad is your life and then think of the feelings he has for u and the kids come on u need to set a goood example

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  • dirtyocupaton2
    12 years ago

    It seems that you have a bit of a challenge deciphering the difference between stouborn and controling. You put yourself in a very vulnerable situation that enabled a controller to hook you. Being submissive is all well and good but to let a stranger take control of you and your marraige is to say the least not very smart. If you want to put yourself in the hands of this bully who needs to get his needs met at your expence, then do it. Just remember that you are the one giving him all this power ofer your life.

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    He didn't make you do shit. All of this garbage was your own decision.
    Great job. Now if you live long enough you might get to watch your kids make the same fucked up choices.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    randomjelly is right. you are huge fcking moron. Btw your husband is also a huge moron without pride, nice example both of you are for the kids.

    Leave your husband stupid cunt.

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