What do i do?

So recently I came out as bisexual. And I'm madly in love with my best friend. I told her because... I thought she might have feelings for me. She basically hates me now. All she tells me is that I play with her emotions. But she never tells me how she feels about me. What should I do?

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  • e51pegasi

    Ask her how she truly feels. Leave her to calm down & reflect for a while first.
    Then ask her how she feels about you, friend or possibly more? Don't mention how you feel until she asks.

    If her response is negative just move on. If your feelings for her are not reciprocated it is going to make friendship virtually impossible.

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  • mel19

    I was definitely in this situation once. Almost word for word.
    BE MATURE, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF and CONFRONT her about her emotions. If she doesn’t like you back the same way, move on. You will meet thousands of other amazing people in your life. Don’t let one person drag your heart around. She honestly doesn’t sound like the one for you.

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  • Wtf055

    Sounds like she wasn't your friend to begin with..what kinda shit is that, hating you because you said you had feelings for her? I'd be blunt about it and see what she says.If she still remains crusty...On To The Next One.

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  • jethro

    Is your friend bi-sexual?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Just leave her alone. She probably hates you, because she's straight and you grossed her out. I don't think the playing with emotions has anything to do with romance or sex. I think the playing with her emotions thing has to do with her feeling betrayed, and like you never really cared for her as a true friend. I know I've always felt betrayed, and disgusted when so called friends came on to me. Just leave her alone.

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  • Is your friend into girls? Have you two ever hooked up?
    The "playing with her emotions" bit leads one to think something happened between you.

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    • We never hooked up.

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      • Be honest about your feelings and wait.
        Best of luck.

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  • McBean

    Of course she hates you. You're a creep. Go find other bisexual friends.

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  • DingusKhan

    How does she smell?

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