What defines someone as being "cool"?

I would think people have different views on what makes someone cool. I asked my sister what's her definition of a cool person?
Her description was of someone who likes to party a lot, is popular and is basically mainstream .
Imo , I agree with her but I also determine a cool person by the way they look. E.g- Good fashion sense, may have some tattoos, plays sports or something that they're basically good at. I think it has to do a lot with the way they look, how they act, eg smoking , drinking & their demena. What do you all think?
Also, I'm a down to earth, no tattoos type of girl. I love animals/nature & work outdoors. I don't consider my self the cool type. I don't party due to many reasons, I dont smoke or drink. Yet I want to be cooler, i want to be liked by a lot . Any tips on what to do to change me up a little? :p

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  • OnOmAtOpOeiA

    I don't smoke and don't drink a lot and I don't hang out in the party and clubbing scene but I am rad.

    I think it's because I am confident and treat people with respect. So much so that it makes them admire me.

    I can also squirt my snot out from my tear gland when my nose is runny.

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  • kristys_mail

    Cool is what you make of it. Always drinking and taking up smoking maybe cool to some but it's not cool to others.

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    • AliBabba83

      Dude. Smoking is SOOO not cool. What's cool about stinky breath and clothes and wasting what little money you have (because you are in high school, it seems)!?

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      • kristys_mail

        I'm not in high school and I hate smoking actually. Im just saying cool is what you make of it.

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  • Murun

    It's completely subjective.

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  • AliBabba83

    Cool is a person who is comfortable in her own skin. Cool is someone who is comfortable with her own quirks.

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  • sillygirl77

    I think cool is down to earth and progressive, but I know that's not everyone's definition

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  • riffraffy

    Cool is really just physical attractiveness + confidence.

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