What combination of introverts and extroverts make the best couple?

I find that when two extroverts date the relationship sometimes tends to explode itself. Or when two introverts date that things fall apart without an outside social connection. So in my eyes introverts are more compatible with extroverts and vice versa. What do you think?

Introvert with an extrovert 24
Introvert with an introvert 23
Extrovert with an extrovert 10
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  • Introverts are not always as introverted around people that they trust, so probably won't act introverted within their relationship.

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    • Samesame

      Exactly. In relationships we don't act the same as with other people.

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    • Mmmpfh

      Very true but their ability to scoialize with their partner's friends and others they don't know too well can affect a relationship aswell

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      • I married a true introvert and his introversion was never a problem for me. I'm not an extrovert nor an introvert; I'm sort of smack dab in the middle of the two.

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        • Mmmpfh

          Being inbetween the two makes you an ambiversion! :D
          But ya, I'm an introvert and my introversion did affect my relationship with my ex. Probably because we were young and at a distance though.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I am a extreme extrovert, and I once dated a girl that was an extreme introvert. We were okay when we were alone together but my active social life eventually became too much for her. She wanted to come home after work every single day and cuddle on the couch watching TV every night. I enjoy this a couple of times a week, but I am not going to lose friends because I spend every night at home either.

    She was a lovely girl but we were just too different to work.

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  • dom180

    As an introvert, I think I would find it very difficult to be in a relationship with an extrovert. That doesn't mean I would find it impossible, or that it doesn't work really well for a lot of people; I just don't think it would for me :)

    While opposites do attract to a certain extent, people need a lot of common ground as well. I couldn't easily compromise on introversion, because I've never found it easy to relate my feelings to an extroverted person. I find their personalities too difficult to understand. Of course there are probably extroverts I would be able to be in a happy relationship with, I've just never found one.

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  • Blind women and violent rapists.

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  • Shackleford96

    Opposites attract, right? At least that's what I've heard anyway...

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    • gncp

      Agree!

      If you're sad you'll look for a happy person.
      If you're happy you want to share happiness to someone in need.

      We always look, like, need and love someone who fills the blank in us.

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      • Shackleford96

        ^I like this :)

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  • Samesame

    Introverts with introverts. Dating am extrovert would be kind of hard because their idea of a good time is going out clubbing or something. Where introverts just want to chill together at home.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Introvert and Extrovert. I think that two of the same kind can work out quite well too. However, I feel that an Introvert being with an Extrovert is like when two puzzle pieces connect. They perfectly compliment each other, in a sense.

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  • TeamPeeta

    Charlieissocoollike, anyone?

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  • Uzzie101

    It tends to be introvert with extroverts. The other combinations work too but there seems to be more "drama" in those relationships.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    I can't come around to fully accepting the notion that an extrovert is best matched with an introvert, or any other option. Like dappled said, I don't think there is an absolute truth to it.

    Are relations more successful if an extrovert and an introvert date? I don't know. It could be true; it couldn't as well.

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  • dappled

    I don't think there's such a single absolute truth. It's more a balance of many smaller things (which may themselves be features of introversion or extroversion) that makes a couple work.

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  • dickwashington

    am i the only person who dosent know what this whole thing means what is an extroverts and what is an introverts?

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