What can i do?

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Well since I have no one to talk about it.

First I came out my shell and finally told my mother I wanted to try dating for guys,( since I'm Bi and i'm also guy) my mother got quiet then minutes later she had to talked with my grandma.

Next day in morning.… she took me to church " I'm so mad". After that I went home and ask my mother it got into huge argument so mother reply " I don't want you make kids just not in this world" I understand that.

One she doesn't want me be gay
Two she doesn't want me make kids
Three. I guess she only wants me stay with girls I suppose.

What the point being with girls if I can't make my own kids or what the point being with guys if it's against the religion.

I'm 100 % there some children parents not allowing them have gay marriage due to religion.

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    Your parents are bigoted, homophobic retards who live their stupid lives guided by an absurd and pathetic fantasy (religion). This isn't rare, of course, in our evil, revolting and appalling shit-hole we call our world.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    She sounds selfish and manipulative. Don't listen to her.

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    • DannyKanes
      8 years ago

      ^ Exactly this, it's your life, you live it however the hell you want :)

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  • Maybeso
    8 years ago

    If your gay your definatly doomed mate just get some mental health help and pray for the souls in purgotory and to our lady for forgivness ..also its proven fact that 100% of pedophiels are also "queer" and "queers are 75% more likely to become pedophiels ..

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    • LittleGirlStrippedChokedRaped
      8 years ago

      Amen to that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Also I have question? Where did you get that information because gay marriage exist.

      Umm are you trying to say 79% gay/ lesbian/ bisexual are into children because that's not true, only sick people.

      Depends on your childhood if you killed or anything is wrong so yea.

      PS. I don't Pray ( atheist)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      You do realize you spell pedophile wrong?

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  • Beginner
    8 years ago

    Don`t listen to her , never
    im 26 and i regretted for everything i waste it because of orders of my parents and orders of religion

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      That must been really hard?

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      • Beginner
        8 years ago

        Is this a question or what !!?

        SO, If a question , sure it is really hard to stop doing things you need or you like because of orders of whoever or whatever .

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          It was just my response. So here the real question?

          How bad was it ( your experience)

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          • Beginner
            8 years ago

            okay

            i will tell you everything about my experience

            BUT

            firstly i wanna advise you (if you are not gay)
            my advice is "try to know a girl if you have not"
            girls or women are more better in sex, in love and everything you need .. more than men

            and no one can decide that you have children or not except you

            you only who has/have the decision (you only , not anyone else)

            secondly , my experience
            i feel that i can not do anything alone because orders of my family (i have 4 brothers and 2 sisters and iam the last son or the little son/brother)

            so i was taking orders from every person in my family .. so i lived a hard life , so i do not have any self-confidence .. until/till my brothers traveled to different countries and i became alone .. and my parents became old , so they can not order me
            but i love them and help them in every thing and everywhere (my father has 73 years old , my mother has 67 years old)

            although iam free now , and no one can order me but iam suffering because my personality become sick or tired

            so

            choose your life and take risks
            be bold and don`t be afraid

            i think you still young or still under 18
            so, do what you want

            BUT please don`t hurt your mother , speak with her gently , she is your lovely mother

            i have many words and problems to tell you BUT i don`t speak English well

            i wanna help you a lot because i lived hard times

            do not do what i did in the past

            i was coward and not bold

            i want you brave , with a brave heart and brave mind/brain

            take the responsibility
            and don`t look back or do not look behind you

            look to your great future

            and plz think again about knowing a girl not a guy
            not because orders of religion but because i wanna you live a good life and you should know that commonsense is that a man marry/date a woman
            and a guy marry/date a girl
            not man marry another man or dog or donkey
            and not woman to marry another woman or dog or any animals

            and plz take care of your parents specially you mom
            not only because God said that but also because we have to do that and care of/about our moms

            have a great day my brother

            im 25 yrs , i have no girlfriend and no wife .. and still virgin .. and my name is Ahmed :)

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              Thanks for advice unlike [ user crow ] who has better English grammar & doesn't understand people that has broken English. I can speak on real life really well ( I'm loud too) " I deleted her comment"

              English isn't my first being honest

              I'm actually 18 also virgin too, it doesn't mean I don't like sex or gay. I'm just saving it for special someone who i deserves better, so yea.

              We have something in common about family and orders, I always take orders from everyone. I started to realize I felt like loser who didn't have ability to say no or refuse ( I had experience to disobey)

              Thanks to religion, I disobey to my family and I refused to do what they say then I get punished. Sometimes I focused dealing my problems.

              I'm actually bi sexual and being bi sexual is hard because if your truly gay you get lot of female friends. If your really bi sexual then you going have hard time with gay or women on your hands. So it depends where u go or got yourself into u know.

              When it comes to women as bi sexual then it's acceptable every where because they won't mind it ( my experience with my female friends)

              As bi sexual guy? You will get lot of people staring, then there some guys will judge and turn asshole.

              Also I didn't know I should listen and respect of my mother order of her disliked about me being bi sexual and me wanting kids. I understand, bi against religion and having kids being too risky.

              I have question? Is pretty girls exist without makeup. I been explaining to [ user crow] that " make up" is something to make girls to look pretty and feel better themselves ( I grew up with my three sisters and they wear lot of make up each day)

              If you look up Google before and after make up? It's a thing for them to hide the truth of they're faces. ( I'm speaking the truth for all men or billions people) every where I go I see girls wear make up.

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