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If you are in a relationship with someone, how strongly do you want their devotion to be? Which of these things would you draw the line at as unacceptable?
| Watching porn of other people | 3 | |
| Openly looking at other attractive people in public | 9 | |
| Going to a strip club | 7 | |
| Trying to talk me into a 3way or letting them have a hall pass | 11 | |
| Fucking someone without my consent | 36 | |
| I don't care, as long as they treat me well and don't get a disease. | 7 |
None of it really, but to be honest he's not like that at all. His ex wife was interested in swinging, and had cheated on him repeatedly. He left her, but probably stuck around trying to work things out for too long. Anyway he told me that he was completely not interested in swinging and wouldn't tolerate a cheater which was and still is a big turn on for me! My partner and I are best friends and lovers. We have many of the same must haves and deal breakers.
The top two are fine. I really wouldn't want someone I was dating to go to a strip club by themselves because I do have insecurity issues about stuff like that, but I wouldn't break up with them if I got to go along and they asked my permission first. None of the other options are acceptable under any circumstances.
As long as my wife is open and honest and tells me what she wants to do, or what she did I am completely ok with and she knows that. In fact she frequently tells me what guys she finds hot and I love hearing it, but so far I don't think she has been with anyone else, yet.
The three way, wanting someone else, and cheating is where I draw the line. I'm into a monogamous relationship and have no interest in such things.