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I am 32 married with one child and one on the way. I love my wife ad my family tremendously. Now then, I find guys sexually attractive. No different than women, he has to be appealing to me, but when he is I can't get it out of my head. Is it normal for guys to be bi or is it simply black and white and I'm a mess.
I discovered my bi curiosity about ten years ago.I finally tried it and loved it. I am only orally bi and totally get into sucking another man. i prefer another married guy
I've said this on other posts and I'll say it again, once you drop the labels you'll be much happier. You are who you are even if you don't know who you are. If you insist on labeling yourself then I'd say your bi and yes guys can be bi too and their is nothing wrong with that. Just remeber that you have a wife and kids and you need to be true to her, however maybe you would feel better if you talked to her about it?
your just bi. but dont let your girl know this. she'll immediately leave.
if you werent married or with kids, id say experiment.
but never cheat, EVER!
ask yourself this question...when you are old, and in the place you see yourself when you are at peace, let it be the beach or a country house whatev.
Who is with you? Who is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? Is that person a man...or a woman?
I think you're gay, as a man you think women are pretty, but if you find men sexually attractive..cha your gay, ermm lol you will be if the right gay man finds you hahaha! ;)
BUT!! CHEATING!! on your wife, I don't care if it's porn or finding another bi/gay guy to experiment with. CHEATING is WRONG! If you really love your wife, not telling her is cheating. If she's your partner, lover, friend, tell her how you feel.
my dad kind of went through the same thing as you if you want to take it that far please talk about it with your wife first DONT ASK FOR HER PERMISSION TO lol but just tell her how you are feeling think about your kids first if you feel like you cant take it anymore be honest with yourself first (that means mentally not physically)then tell your family for the sake of your kids dont cheat it not only affects your marraige but your kids as well hell just look at me haha
hey bro attraction is attraction. things click like that sometimes. but if you love your family and wife, dont cheat man, even out of curiousity, you'll hate yourself.
You must be bi then. Every sexuality is alright - there is no right and wrong way to be - so enjoy it.
i know what you are going through im bisexual i ahve been at the age of 10 and i still find men artractive but i dont fell anything
There's tons of guys that are bisexual. theres nothing wrong with it, be proud of it!!
Bi-something. Accept your feelings. But be clear about monogamy in marriage especially since you've made that choice and there are children. Being attracted to the same or opposite sex does not mean you have to act on it.
1: you may be bi which is normal. it's a myth that men can be bisexual. further more to quote frued: "the only abnormal sex is not wanting sex at all. after that it's a matter of opportunity."
2: you may have a touch of the gay. not gay but a touch of the gay. your str8 but occasionally you want some dick. again normal.
either way as a human and most esspecially as a guy were driven towards having sex. as a bisexual you have it lucky.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm you know what stick with your wife is better because if try or think to try it you would but yourself your family name down.
if you want to get rid of it out of your mind see your poor child and wonder!!!
Perhaps you're saner then most by being able to find an attraction person attractive, regardless of everything else :)
I am gay and poud. You are obviously bi so yoube proud! However, should you ever take the plunge, make sure any sex is SAFER SEX! Use a condom or make sure he does!!
Good luck.
Hmmmm....
It sounds like you may be just curious. Your wife doesnt need to know, it may hurt her. If you look up gay porn, make sure she never sees it.
Thats a bit wierd. I admire guys enviously and comsmetically but not sexually, genetics says
Personally, I think it's pretty normal. There's loads of bisexual/ bicurious people out there, and in fact there's a school of thought that would say nearly everybody is inherently bisexual to varying degrees. If you're still attracted to your wife and other women, then I doubt you're entirely gay, and as long as you're still happy with your marriage despite these feelings you really don't need to worry about them :)
Homosexuality is a deviation from the natural course of human development. However, just because you're having certain feelings or thoughts doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Consider this- how many people a day do you think imagine murdering someone in their head? Your thoughts of men are significantly less atrocious than that. However, there is a canyon of difference between thinking and acting. Willpower can be executed over these attractions, and you don't have to let them rule you. If needed, seek professional help from a person who believes in the ability of an individual to control their sexual desires.
i think you are just curious .
dont bring ur home down and dont try anything .
avoid thinking of it and try to be sexually active with ur wife