What about love

Is it easier to love, or to be loved?

to love 35
to be loved 27
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  • Holzman_67

    what is love? baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more.

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    • Shrunk

      Wrong song!! "What about love"? Don't you want someone to care about youuu~

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      • Holzman_67

        right song, depending on how you look on it

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  • howaminotmyself

    Depends on the person.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Love is an illusion. There's always a set of criteria.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Neither are easy. A loving relationship takes hard work. You can kill love so easily, with a bit of distrust, jealousy or cruelty.
    It is something to be treasured, nurtured and appreciated; something missed and desired when it's not there.

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  • suckonthis9

    Neither.

    Love should ideally be mutual in scope.

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  • It's easier when there's no huge line at Wallmart so you can pay for your shit quicker without having to deal with the inconvenience that is other people's existence.

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  • inappropriate11

    It's EASIER to BE loved, it takes no effort ;) but it's more satisfying to love and not just receive

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  • ProsaicReality

    It's easier to be loved than to love.

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  • Unimportant

    Love is a subjective feeling. If a person believes to love someone, this person IS loving someone, because there's no objective definition of the feeling "love". There is no wrong, incorrect love, - it simply doesn't exist.

    That being said: The process of "loving someone" is yours, you have full control over the situation (if not your brain, then at least your heart does), and therefore it is easy.
    Whereas the process of "being loved by someone" is out of your control, you don't know, how your actions are going to affect this other person's love towards you. You can't do anything to keep another person from loving you, or to make them love you. Therefore, it is hard to be loved.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    What about love? What about our promises?

    Anywho, I'd think that being loved would be easier? Because you don't have to do anything..right? Loving someone else is an action on your part.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    what ive seen its easier for everyone else to fake it.

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  • People killin', people dyin'
    Children hurt and you hear them cryin'
    Can you practise what you preach
    And would you turn the other cheek

    Father, Father, Father help us
    Send some guidance from above
    'Cause people got me, got me questionin'
    Where is the love?
    Where is the love, the love, the loveeeeeeeee

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  • dom180

    Neither of them have been difficult for me so far. They've both been involuntary, actually.

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    • Holzman_67

      I love you man

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      • dom180

        <3

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  • I honestly have no idea anymore.

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