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I'm a 14-year-old girl and I have a boyfriend. I often fantasize about him and I in bed together and it gets even more heated in my sleep. I wake up and go to sleep wanting to masturbate and it annoys me so much. What exactly does having a wet dream mean? Does it mean I need sex? Does it mean that I need more physical contact with my boyfriend? What?
It means your body is craving sex,but since you are 14,stick to masterbating till you're 18. When we wake up from a wet dream masterbate,then you'll sleep better
I don't know if it's the same in your country but having underaged sex is illegal. It's best to wait until you're older anyways in case you get pregnant by accident. You could just ask him to eat you out or pleasure you in ways that are less risky.
It's your hormones going nuts. Its normal.
Btw a tip from a pro. When you have sex with whoever when you decide to always pull out if he's not got a condom on and you're not on birth control. Pulling out is better than him blasting in you thats only if you have to do it unprotected for whatever reason. Im not encouraging it, you should use birth control, but it cuts chances down of getting knocked up to like 0.5%
well yes, IF you do decide to go there, then definitely use protection and birth control, just please REALLY try and hold out hon, it'll even make him and anyone else want you MORE, trust me.
Yeah I'm going to tell my kid to always use a condom or birth control but I feel like no one ever tells these kids the importance of the man not going in the girl...
They arent going to always use protection anyway so you might as well teach them the skills to not get pregnant.
Ive had friends that just blast in girls left and right. They all got girls pregnant young too. I didnt.
but you know that pulling out is a myth right? You can still get pregnant with the secretions well before that point
Weird guy is right though - pull out method is actually pretty effective. Obviously not as good as wearing a condom, but my husband and I have always used the pull out method inbetween having babies because we can never be arsed to buy condoms. So far it's worked for us, we've only ended up pregnant when we've stopped pulling out and he actually finishes inside of me.
Its not a myth. The sperm is in the load you shoot during orgasm. What leaks out during precum is semen and not sperm. Although there is very few sperm in precum it is highly unlikely to get knocked up. Google it.
Ive never used protection for like 12 years and ive been married for most of that. We have sex daily. Ive always pulled out. Then when we decided to get her pregnant, which was twice, the only times ive EVER went in a girl BOTH times I got her pregnant on the first try. So I'm undoubtedly fertile.
When I ask all my friends with babies if they busted in their girl they all said yes.
Google it. Pulling out is not a myth. The sperm is what gets you pregnant
Okay, i'm back, had to call my boyfriend! Well, google may say that but my doctor told me that pulling out is a myth... and i tend to want to believe her over google, but i still think that making the boy wear a condom would be her best and safest choice, not only to avoid pregnancy but also to avoid std's, and i guarantee the boy will secretly respect her all the more for insisting, no matter how much he complains...
Welcome to the club hon! I had mine at that same age, and it was amazing. It just starts coming,(ha! no pun intended) at this age for many young women, but listen, this doesn't mean you have to have sex, don't feel this means you have to go there yet, believe me you definitely will want to save that for when it will be right, and you will just "know" when it is..waiting till then will make it so much more meaningful to you, I promise! In the meantime embrace it and enjoy this whole new realm you are about to discover. I promise it's normal.
Enjoy the dreams and nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself even more..it will help in putting him off longer till you are ready..