Weird situation after sex...iin?

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Here's the deal. The guy is my co-worker and we both work in IT (we have a lot in common, plenty of common interest, job etc.) and we're both fairly young. We've known each other for a while and I totally adore him 'cause he is nice and handsome and all that stuff but recently I've got into this weird situation. We were hanging out at my place, we were flirting, he said he's in love with me and we had amazing sex (for the first time). I got sleepy (I always do after sex), so he kissed me on the cheek and asked if he could stay for the night. I said I wouldn't mind at all and there's a couch in the living room (which is comfortable) and he just said Ok and left my house. The next day he wouldn't even talk to me, making rude comments whenever I spoke (not even to him). All of our сo-workers had noticed that. I asked him in private why was he like that and he told me to take a guess. My question is what's going on? Is that because I wouldn't let him sleep in my bed, which is way too personal for me. None of my ex-boyfriends did and never had problems with that.

What do I do now? I really like him.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Its to personal to sleep in the same bed after you've had sex? I can see why he might be confused by that. But whatever at least now you know theres a compatibility issue.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    7 years ago

    Sounds like he thinks you're after a quick bang now and then and he wants something more

    i probably would have felt a bit dejected if i were him ( or completely, depending on how in love with you he is ) i've spent the night in the same bed with just a fuck buddy ( there must be a better term than that ) so if i finally got together with someone i really liked and then got suggested to move to the couch i'd probably feel a little hurt, maybe because the past way i've shared beds or that anxous side to me but i'd assume the person would only be interested in something physical and maybe feel used

    as ^ said, it was too personal for him to sleep there but not hace sex with him there, i've not met someone like that

    also, it's not about comfort

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  • jethro
    7 years ago

    It was too personal to let him sleep in your bed, but not too personal to screw him there. How lame. I would have left too. Except I would have said a hearty F.U. before I left though. It looks like you got screwed again.

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    Someone sleeping in the same bed as you is too personal.

    But fucking them isn't.

    Wow.

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