Weird reaction i got from a girl-friend.

She is pissed that she didn't get what she wants. It does seem like she is trying to get you to be a "partner" by implying something like "only boyfriends get to lay on me".
Don't give her what she wants. She obviously does not value the friendship as much as you do, and I'd consider a new friend if she doesn't clear up her act.

It sounds more like she said "Why the fuck are you leaning on me after you just rejected me?! To rub it in my face?!"

No one's perfect, we slip up occassionally. Talk to her and if she can't get over it then you know for sure.

Dude you're fucking with this girl man what the hell!?!? She asked you and you said no, so why the fuck are you still hanging out?! Do you know how hard that must be on her man?! Friends don't cuddle each other bitch, that's for boyfriends and girlfriends. Either stop hanging out with her or bang her.

Hello. Welcome to IIN.

Why did you tell her no?

She probably felt led on. You laying on her shoulder and making her your "pillow" probably led her to think you like her to. Then when she confessed and you rejected her, she felt stupid and used. Of coarse she didn't let you lean on her anymore. It's not that she doesn't value your friendship, she's just hurt by your actions and likely can't deal with you laying on her all the time when she has feelings for you and knows she can't have you. Laying on a girl who likes you is likely to happen, laying on a girl you reject, not so likely to happen. Right?

This looks easy.. staying friends might just mean you can't have that physical connection like you used to.

I don't get people telling me it's my fault.
When a girl rejects a guy but still cuddle with him, he's "friendzoned" but it's ok because it's a girl.
If a guy does it, it's "wrong" and he's a bastard.
Fyi: I never cuddled in a sexual way or tried to tease her sexually. By "cuddle" I merely mean lean on her shoulder which she never complained of before.
To all the guys calling me a fag because I didn't "jump" her:
Incredibly all my psych tests put me at 100% masculinity, and I'm not even into sex.
Guess masculinity is more about knowing who you are, what you want and being truthful to yourself than being a "dog" chasing after every single girl and who only likes sex.
If you want some "manly" bullshit, I can throw some to you like how I pounded a guy into hospital not so long ago or messed up a bastard who was hitting his girlfriend in the streets.
I'm 1m80 high, and the size of a pro american football player. I can fuck you up anytime.
If you're so "manly", why won't you come with your idiotic insults and stereotypes to my face, then we'll see who's the "manliest".
A true man is one who accepts his feelings and knows what he wants. Not one who hides and jumps every girl without feelings.
If that's your lifestyle, fine by me, just don't tell me I'm "gay" because I chose to make love with women I am confortable and have a connection with.

U sound homosexual

You sound like a beta fag. Seriously, grow a sack.

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maybe cause you denied her then you tried being flirty and lead her on by trying to lay on her. You can't do that. If you know someone likes you, you need to give them space to get over you, not tease them.

I really thought you meant your girlfriend is your pillow. My second girlfriend is my pillow. My actual physical girlfriend knows this lol. I am the one who posted about smelling your pillow all the time. I am doing this as I am typing.

If you rejected her, why are you giving her hope? You shouldn't hangout with her in the first place...

This is a toughie. Even as a Christian, in todays society, or really any society since, it's hard to imagine people being friends after, a relationship, sex, or ones pronounced affection. This is an age old question. I think by being physically intimate, at the does not have to mean in a sexual way, you might have hinted that you thought of her as something more than a friend, and that may have compounded with feelings she may have already had for you. Or not, the could have fostered after this behaviour.

You could tell her that you never meant to put out those feelings, and that maybe you shouldn't have. I can't picture a guy doing that unless they were gay, or had feelings for the girl, except in your case. Just recognize that it's probably your fault, she can't help feelings. If it get's worse, try to tell her how much she means to use as a friend, maybe you depend on her for something. Just tell her what she means to you without sounding romantic. That's as much as I can say without putting words in your mouth. I hope things go well.

It seems as though she's your puppy dog, and by you resting your head on her lap, is like dangling a biscuit in front of that poor little puppys face, and quickly taking it away as the pup goes for it. I think she views your 'friendship' as you teasing her or leading her on.

If you wanna be friends with her, be a friend. But don't be all cuddly with her, when you know it probably makes her feel uncomfortable, and since cuddling is really more of something you do with someone you're having sexual relations with.

Also, don't completely burn this bridge. You might not like her now, but who knows what you'll think of her years from now. This might be something thats gonna result in; 'you don't know what you got until its gone'.

cuddling with women is dangerous they develop feelings for you. good luck with the back sale and hello

Fuck her or chuck her she sounds like a spiteful desperate bitch who craves your balls anyway.