Weird porn fetishes - are they normal?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I found out he was a porn addict 6 months in, but it wasn't until a year later I found out about some fetishes that really freak me out and still make me sick to my stomach to think about... they're disgusting and perverted (to me), things like:

Girls stuck in quicksand, their high heels stuck in quicksand, (basically girls trapped in anything, glue, mud, clothes that are too tight, being vacuum sealed, even trapped in sleeping bags), high heels torture (trampling people's faces), high heels in general, sims torture, torture in general, people being eaten by snakes (vore?), women's wrestling, women in spandex suits, animated women's wrestling, anime, video games (samus's zero suit, women wrestling), and more...

The ONLY one I considered even slightly normal was bondage, but I still think it's kind of weird because he wants ME to tie HIM up and gag him and I'm really not into that...

I guess I'm wondering, are these fetishes really normal for guys? Does anyone have a similar situation with a S.O.? I can't see how anybody could be turned on by any single one of them, let alone soo many! I told him he has issues and needs therapy, now he thinks I'm a b****.

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  • Istaypiffed

    Lol. A fetish is a fetish.
    If thats what hes into. Theres no amount of therapy that can change that. Everyone has that certain "thing" that gets em going. Maybe you should be more open minded.
    Sounds totally normal to me.
    I could see if it was a murder fetish or something. Than it would be crazy.
    But c'mon.... If its not hurting anyone wuts the big deal?

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  • Hypnotic4play

    we say its all horse for courses. nothing surprises me any more. If its legal and dosnet cause any long term harm or damage to anyone a fetish should be enjoyed but not necessarily shared. I just know sometimes the power of the imagination is better than the real thing and less damaging

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    • cooldudejw

      imagination is defo better than the real thing and safer. IMO

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  • robert2011

    its normal i always wanted a woman to beat the crap out of me and trample my face,i enjoy the pain even better when they trample me in heels:)

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  • PREGNANCYISHOT

    i am a virgin
    am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
    Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.

    I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!

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    • odill

      It is perfectly normal! Fetishes are healthy as long as they don't cause mental or physical harm to you or someone else! Most everyone has some kind of fetish!

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  • StarGirl13

    I actually registered with IIN.com for almost the same reason as you.
    I've been with my boyfriend for one year now and we are completely in love and just totally happy with everything about each other.
    He has admitted that he watches porn and I'm just like okay whatever , I don't watch it that much but I just figure it's a guy thing.
    He was in the shower a few months ago and I snooped through his History I found some f*****up stuff such as "girl getting it from big horse penis". I was like WHAT THE HELL and just felt sick to my stomach why would this turn him on thats sick! .. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and conclude it must have been a curiosity thing or perhaps he was gunna link it to one of his friends for a stupid joke ( him and his friend can be pretty immature sometimes) so I just thought it to be something to let slide.

    YESTERDAY, however..... I found more weird stuff, like alot. NO bestiality this time but tranny-sex. chicks with dicks... vomit parties and weird weird stuff like that! I don't know what to do. If I tell him i saw it he is going to get upset cuz I snooped and all embarrassed. I don't get why this turns him on..... I'm so sickened, but I feel bad getting mad at him cuz maybe it's just a fetish.

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  • jonandjanedoe85

    Sadly, you can't fix a fetish. What he likes is what he likes. I'm into the vore stuff, the idea of a hot woman swallowing me alive (as a tiny person, not that large person making a belly large nonsense) is way hotter than it would actually be. I realistically imagine it would become very unplesant quickly... but I can't ration with it in my mind. Luckily, it's not something that can ever happen unless we developa shrink ray.

    Anyway, my real point is, you need to decide for yourself if this is something you want in your life. If it makes you uncomfortable, and it's not what you're into, you should probably break it off, especially if you think he'll feel you'll need him to do it. I mean, if you guys are able to have a healthy sex life AND he can watch porn without it affecting it, and it's not making him into an asshole, then perhaps you can stick it out.

    Bottom line, if you're not comfortable with it, get out of the relationship now. If you can ignore it and it doesn't have any harmful affects on your sex and relationship life, then maybe you can work on it.

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  • pixiecutlover

    LOL
    this suff is all bondage related, your guy is creative at least, if perverted some. Up to you what you do.

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  • LuxM4G

    They are clinically described as paraphilias and there are over 600 of them officially recognized. It's not something exclusive of males, but they make the majority of it due to its physiology.

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  • koga

    He probably views it as him as the hero and as for the stomping that's beyond me unless he likes it rough...

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  • PREGNANCYISHOT

    It has gotten to the point where I had to buy a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite which I had to give up in March 2013, since my one and only bf found it and took to a charity shop. However I never really said that I had brought it or why. I feel empty without it.

    I loved to still act very very fat and pregnant too wearing tight clothes (sometimes I wear an old swimming suite stuffed to the max) and a very tight belt. It does not feel the same anymore, and does not feel like I am carrying a baby.

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  • DEATHBRINGER1232

    We all have our turn ons for instance i love anime!!!!

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