Weird feeling that i want to be pregnant?

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I am 19 and in college, and have only been with my boyfriend for 7 months. He is not in school and works minimum wage - not to mention we live 30 miles apart and only see each other once a week. If I got pregnant it would be REALLY bad for us both.

But when we have sex, when we do the pull out method... I secretly hope for it to fail. I feel like I want him to get me pregnant. I am even on birth control but I have this urge, this hope that he'll get me pregnant. I wouldn't tell him, he may take it the wrong way. I don't even want to have and raise a baby right now,, it would be destructive to my, my boyfriend's and this baby's life. But this strange urge seems to disregard that...

Actually, a year or so ago I was with another guy and we did have a pregnancy scare (turns missing a birth control pill messed up my period but it APPEARED I could have been pregnant) but, I took pregnancy tests and when they came out NEGATIVE... alongside the relief was disappointment. I had just turned 18 but again, had that weird craving to be pregnant. (though I am very happy that never happened!!!)

is it normal to feel this way??

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    These are your hormones speaking to you but 7 months is a very short time to base a life-changing decision on!! See how you feel about him after 4 years - he's likely to be history!!

    Anyway for your info:

    For your info:

    The government calculated the cost of raising child . . .
    . . . from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140 for a middle income family. Talk about sticker shock. That doesn't even touch college tuition. For those with kids, that figure leads to wild fantasies about all the things we could have bought, all the places we could have traveled, all the money we could have banked

    if not for (insert child's name here). For others, that number might confirm the decision to remain childless.

    But $160,140 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into $8,896.66 a year, $741.38 a month or $171.08 a week. That's a mere $24.44 a day.

    Just over a dollar an hour. Still, you might think the best financial advice says don't have children if you want to be rich.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    No wonder there are so many single mothers, the fathers are probably men that have partners that want to get pregnant when theman obviously don't want that happening.

    I can't wait to see if there will ever be a "pill" for the males. You just know they will be taking it constantly.

    Ah, it would be an amazing day for all men when that day comes. The amount of women won't fall pregnant mainly because of the male pill. There will be alot of women angry at the pill males then get to use, but a large amount of happy men.

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  • Fozmula
    12 years ago

    No.

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  • tiffunny5
    12 years ago

    This is extremely selfish thinking.
    You are just thinking about your life and what you want. Not taking into consideration how this would affect the Human being you would be bringing into the world.
    Do us tax payers a favor- please wait until you can Financially suport a baby, so we dont have too. Thanks!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Same, just try and focus on things like college & being a teenager first that helps me anyway (: x

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