Weed is it ?

Hello folks, My girlfriend recently broke up with me because I smoke to much bud. I do have to admit I smoke to much, but It's not like i'ma stop the next day. I wouldn't say pot took over my life, I just revolve around it, I mean If there isn't any I would be completely fine, but their always is and my friends always do. So IIN? to smoke pot on a daily bases for years? You think this could change my attitude? and my whole personality? I don't think I need to change, It's my girlfriend. She knew me since day one and she knew that I smoked hella bud.

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Comments ( 20 )
  • dice

    smart girl

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  • poisonandmore

    dude, quit now,

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  • HSVWHO

    I hate junkies that take pride in their acts!!!

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  • babyeater1992

    it's completely normal. good luck finding another girl though. its hard when your married to mary.

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  • Smoke weed everyday!

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  • Your ex is a smart girl.

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  • sherry

    Guys lose the freakin' drugs. I've been in the impaired world and the sober world. The sober.world is much better. You don't have to spend all time cleaning up your messes- DUI's, etc.

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  • tbh,weed changes you.
    you can get paranoid,aggresive and it just changes who you are. Obviously your not oblivious to the fact that youv changed but she is and shes probably had enouggh! You probably got aggresive or even violent. And i noo you cant quit becoz its good stuff. But my advice is cut dwn little by little and eventualy you wont need it no more;)

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  • Gidget

    it changes who you are as a person believe me i know

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  • I am a girl and I don't see why anyone should have a problem with weed. Honestly I'd rather my man smoke weed than do any other drugs or pills or hell even drinking alcohol. It's safer. But I guess to each their own.

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    • Paul

      But what would your husband Adolf say to that?! LOL

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  • Paul

    You will have many more girlfriends. It's boring to be stuck with just one, who gets on your nerves with crap to boot.

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  • 123hey

    Totally agree with Gin

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  • randomjelly

    It's fine...until you decide to grow up.

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  • xxjellybeanxx

    I used to be te same way with my bf about weed. Until one day I relized it's not a big deal if u can afford to do it but after I stop caring about him doing I began to smoke heavly then began smoking everyday an I find it normal to do it now like it's just a habit and it keeps me sane.

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  • Gin

    If it was ok, then you girlfriend wouldn't have left ya. It is your life yes, but there comes a point in which your decisions are destructive, this is the perfect example of a poor choice. I am just trying to help you, don't fall for the " it's your life do whatever you want regardless the cost". Take life in stride, act in a fashion that is what you want, yet respects others.

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  • Diviner

    Don't listen to Gin. ^^^^ it's your fucking life! If you like to party hard, DO IT:D if it's a major part of you, don't change it just because of some bitch. Unless you really like her, then just do it behind her back;) One Love<3

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  • Gin

    The reason why people smoke weed is because of one of two possible things. One, they have a third rate social rate and have to smoke to fit on, or Two, they have no self confidence and are very weak in the aspect of wants and needs. As for the personality changing bit, yes it does change you this is because you are literally killing brain cells in your prefrontal cortex where your ability to memorize and think is held, making you a short minded, short tempered person. So, it is obvious why she left, there are no benefits to smoking weed, just loss and failure. Thus, are you a man or a kid who feels nothing but the need to compensate his life with weed?

    Also, 4/20 is just another excuse to smoke without feeling ashamed of how far you've fallen.

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  • bugg

    Well you have to conisder that weed is a personality changer. You also have to see her point of view. She may feel as though pot is more important than her. I have been 3 months sober from it now. Why? Because my boyfriend asked me to quit. Why did he ask me to? Because it changed me. So maybe you should stop doing it. But that's only if you're willing to
    Stop and willing to put it down for good. I know with it being 4/20 and all you're not
    Gunna quit today but maybe you should seriously consider doing it. Not only
    For her but for you cause man it's gunna tear all your relationships up in the long run. Believe me I know.

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    • Ism0keto!

      thanks I appreciate it, things worked out for us,

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