We had sex 3 times but he told me he's straight, iin?

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Alright, so, I'm a homosexual guy and (recently) I met a guy who seemed to be bisexual.

He was a friend of my friend so we just met through her and, at first, were just friends. Although, as I got to know him, he flirted with me and made many sexual jokes around me.

Needless to say, we ended up having sex. It wasn't because we were drunk or anything like that, he was just strongly hinting it at me (we were alone) and I acted upon impulse and kissed him. One thing led to another and we ended up having oral and anal sex.

...Not only did he enjoy it but later on (about 2-3 weeks later) he wanted it again. The same thing happened again after another 2 weeks.

Then, all of a sudden, we were just chatting normally and he tells me he's straight. I didn't know what to say so I just remained silent for awhile, shocked, and then he hastily got up and told me he had to go.

...I ended up developing feelings to him because of the sex and honestly feel hurt that he said that. Is this normal? What should I do? I haven't talked to him since (it's been a few days).

Is this normal? Did I do something wrong?

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    He sounds like a cunt first off. Second might have been lying to himself to save his pride. Some people do this and its really fucked up. They just do not want to admit to themselves they are gay. It ends up hurting people who might possibly like them. So sorry to say but he was probably using you and he got bored of you. You should forget about this asshole. You deserve better.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    He was using you. I think he'd in the closet Bi lol

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  • q25t
    11 years ago

    First of all, you did nothing wrong as far as I can tell.

    It seems like he may have been trying to find if he is or is not bisexual. With the fact that he came back for a second and third time, he may either now be in denial or he may just be very confused.

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    for the last time, just cause a guy likes a dick in his mouth or ass, does NOT mean he is into and attracted to guys.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Good for him! He probably figured out he could do something better,like find himself a decent girl, not screwing around with other dudes, like a little faggot.

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