Watch gf flirting

My girlfriend is friendly and chatty so lots of guys end up talking to her at any party we go to.

Anyway, sometimes these guys keep buying her drinks and she gets silly and flirty. But there is MORE. Often they cuddle on the couch, kiss, or he squeezes her butt while dancing.

You may think I am crazy BUT I get turned ON watching her in action.
She's hot!!

Is there anyone out there who likes that too?

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  • mickey123

    Lots of men find it a turn on to see their girl flirt with other guys or see other guys pay them a lot of attention. Some even find it a turn on to watch her have sex with these guys. It's pretty normal I think.

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    • goodatgiving

      I love seeing my wife flirt with guys whenever we go out for the evening.....she'll dress scantilly ( see through top or dress , no undies) and we'll sit at the bar flirting with the bartender, gives us free drinks just so he can closer to her and see her boobs or baldness through her almost totally transparent clothes....some guys come real close to talk and a better view. She may ever dance with a few. After a great evening we go home for great sex as this teasing turns us both on....

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      • Muscles1961

        I really love to watch my gf flirting and being chatted up by men, she's even danced with a few I get so aroused, I told her she can kiss them if she likes, but she hasn't yet maybe when she's a little more drunk, I've told her how this turns me on, but she thinks I'm crazy and don't understand why it turns me on.

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  • gouchrobinson

    some couple are like that man. If you trust each other, then I guess it works. I wouldn't call it normal, but I wouldn't down someone else for being more confident than I am.

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  • wyle_e

    A lot of men like to "Hot Wife". They like to know other men find their woman attractive. Not my thing, but if it does it for you and you don't have a jealousy issue, then whatever.

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    • Yes, I agree with you. This is NOT the first time that I've had a flirty gf. I think that it is just HOT to watch her stuff.

      For most of our relationship everything is normal and, in fact, I dont think she knows that I pay attention to what she's doing. We've never talked about it.

      I have even WATCHED other gf have sex!

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  • GreenxBlack

    Maybe you like to show off so to speak? She (in a way) flirts with them but in the end shes yours?

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  • deepthought33

    It is your girlfriend I'm worried about. For you this is a fetish, for her she is knowingly cheating on you.
    The fact that you prefer that and it is actually a PART of your fetish kinda complicates it though. If I had to choose between a deceiving bf/gf with full-on fetish or a equally communicative relationship that still involved a variation of my fetish I think I would choose the latter. More durability. Less STDs.

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  • littlemunkee

    im all for the open relationship, but this is dangerous territory, without being open about it and talking everything through you have no idea where shes been... she sounds like a huge whore, but hey, what ever floats your boat.

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  • blondblueandwhite

    its not really normal but its not crazy weird either i had an ex that was into it and actually wanted me to have sex with other people in front of him or with both of them... dont trip you arent totally of the wall

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  • chimera

    i think it's totally normal. it's just a fetish. it's healthy as long as the two of you communicate about it and you both feel the same way. i had a boyfriend once who was into that kind of thing. it was super fun. i disagree with everyone who says that it means you don't love her, or that there's something wrong with you if you don't want to kill the other guy. that's just in-the-box thinking. everybody is not the same, and there are LOTS of men who are into this exact same thing.

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    • TalkAndTouch

      Hi Chimera,
      Interesting to hear from a GIRL.

      You mentioned that it is important that both the girl and the guy agree what is going on. But, for me, one of the most exciting parts is seeing (or at least knowing)my gf is playing with another guy YET *without* my gf knowing that I KNOW. ;-)

      For example, just a few months ago there was a REALLY hot time where I pretended to be sleepy and headed off to bed. However what I ACTUALLY did was to listen carefully while she sat next to this guy on the sofa. First I head her voice, "I dont think we should do that." then I hear her giggling. I KNEW he got her.

      She acted TOTALLY normal when she came to bed but I knew better ;-)

      What do you think?

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    • Muscles1961

      Yes I agree with you it's fun and exciting, I told her my real fantasy was to see her sleeping with another man, so I can have her after he's finished with her, the thought of this turns me on a lot.

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  • BoredGuy

    seems 1 out of 4 guys want me to pork their gfs. Nice.

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  • firefly88

    i think only 5% of guys are like you but i find nothing wrong with that! too bad the majority of guys are jealous, possessive retards. nothin i hate more than jealousy in a man.

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  • jazzy

    Is she aware that you are watching and enjoying or does this happen when she has too much to drink? Talk to her about it, how you enjoy it and about what you both think her limits, if any, should be. Talk about her going from kissing to giving blowjobs or fucking. If you talk about it and are both ok with it and enjoy it then it's perfectly normal.

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  • guffalump

    Some guys are just into watching their girlfriends or wives with other men. My best friend has had a fantasy of watching his wife have sex with another man. I went to visit and me and his wife had sex while he watched. We are all very good friends and we all 3 get enjoyment out of it. We have also both pleased her at the same time

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  • Ratso

    My boyfriends like ypu, not that i cheat on him. But he doesnt care at all if i talk to other guys yet when other girls talk to him i flip out. From a girls perspective we dont like having obsessively possesive guys but we usually like just alil possesiveness here and there

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  • nah its normal kind of like a fetish even. not a lot of people are into that but i seen it happen a lot. i know a few couples who like to "watch " their mates getting f'ed by someone else and its a turn on for them. as long as both parties are happy and agree with the terms then why not. i'm not into that personally but i am open minded towards others who have interesting fetishes and i won't judge

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  • mousieroo

    Some people get turned on watching their partner get it on with someone else. It's not normal but there's nothing wrong with it. Just make sure you talk about it with your gf and you're both on the same page. She might be trying to make you jealous or something and that's not right.

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    • Muscles1961

      Hi mousieroo this is going to sound weird or strange, I told my gf when we go out to make me really jealous and flirt kiss with other guys, and dance really sexy and close with them, I told her it excites me, I think it's the threat that he's trying to take her away from me, and he's all over her and I love watching his hands wander up and down her body, she loves me to bits and so do it we have a very strong relationship.

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    • TalkAndTouch

      Hi Mist,
      You said that it was important that my gf and I be "on the same page" about the flirting.

      But the thing is that I get MOST OF MY FUN from the fact that I KNOW that she is fooling around and flirting BUT she DOESNT know that I KNOW what she is up to. lol ;-)

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  • Mooselas

    I don't mind if someone buys her and her friends a drink when I'm around, but if someone plays grab ass... I'm kicking some ass

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  • kalish88

    I'm gonna be harsh with you. You are being a timid bitch. Are you to afraid to say anything? And girls usually want their guys to be jealous. They would know you care about them. If I was the other guy, I would slap you for letting me do that to your girl. Then I would take her away.

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  • jimmyj67

    If it was someone else's girl I'd be hot... but if it was my girl... whoever is doing that with her is gonna end up dead...

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  • Listen

    Snog the face off her in the middle of her conversation with these guys

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  • sincity

    Haha I would be pissed.

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  • louiebooyah

    That's fucked up dude I would kick their ass if someone flirted with my girl! Ur weird...

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  • Rick_Bawls

    Is your story is real, you have some issues! Eventually you are going to get to the point at which you sit on a chair watching some random dude have sex with your girlfriend while you rub one out, which is just pathetic.

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  • trav1085

    I think that's hot and I'd like it if my gf was like that. except for the kissing and touching part I think that's too far.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    Lol Hey Dave! Your wife sure is a slut! She blew the entire football team before half time.

    Dave: Yeah I know! I'm enjoying the taste cause I'm actually a closet Gay!!

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  • Gidget

    OMG my boyfriend flipped when he seen a guy sit next to me on a couch at a party u should look into voyerism sounds like something youd be into

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  • myname

    Hey hey. I had a boyfriend same as you. He was turned on by my confessions and thoughts about ohter guys. But what brouhgt our end was this. He let me have sex with a guy who i found very attractive for a lonf time and he was into me also. When we became close and had sex i realized that i didnt love him for a long time. And i left him.
    He is still regretful about letting me be with him. He still cant understand why i left him.
    It is nice not to be so jealous but it can br disasterous.

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  • jordan23

    Maybe she is really a man and those guys are actually gay guys

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  • NotEverEnuf

    morbidthoughts...your gf needs to dump u!

    There are a lot of couples that do this. I guess it's whatever the couple feels comfy doing & if they have trust. So don't think ur the only one!

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  • bubbaloo

    U should watch porn if that's what makes u happy. It would solve ur gf cheating on u and u could still have ur "fetish"

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  • koolmoedee

    Its kinky. Not normal. But if this relationship builds into something more, you're gonna have this hover over your head for a long time. Trust factor goes out the window.

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  • Mr_Don123

    dude really maybe ur into watching ur girl have sex some ppl are like that but for "Normal guys" they wud be pissed tell her stop slutin around b4 u find her in ur bed wit ur close firend.

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  • devilan04

    are you in sincere love with her? but i dont think so... you also same category like her friends...u shouldnt be like that,try to control her and try to be a good partner to her otherwise leave her in her way...

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  • Kick there ass

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  • slurpeesOWN

    Kick their asses man show that your her boyfriend not them! :)

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  • grow some balls!

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  • kev779

    I wud kill them all

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  • ruralfrights

    Hard to imagine that this would be acceptable to you if your relationship is healthy and well integrated. It's almost animal instinct to lash at someone who is coming onto your girl friend, even if thebrelstionsjip is open. If this is a fetish, it's one that could cost you dearly...possibly your relationship.

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  • JessieLou89

    Whatever Floats Your Boat! But She Shouldn't Be Doing That Why Do You Put Up With It =S

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  • That's not really normal. I would stab anyone even touching my man let alone flirting with him. Sounds like you don't love ur g/f otherwise if u did you wouldn't be so into all that.

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  • it kinda seems like u don't really care about her coz usually ppl would get jealous or mad if she's kissing them she's cheating

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  • afghanistudd

    Dude man up n take care of your gf damn. What a crappy bf you are. If a guy did that wit my gf i'd chop his balls off

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  • Maxtasy

    you're a push over piece of shit. and your slut gf is gonna leave because of that.

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  • junglebook20

    i think its important to talk about it. i know lots of guys wanna watch or get pics or something. but shes doing it not knowing youre like this. she would be doin the same thing to a really protective guy. so im gonna say not a good idea. and to all you ppl that say that if youre like this, you cant love anyone, youre retarded. how about coming out of your box a little

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  • leggomyears

    It's a common fetish unfortunately but nothing good can come from it. The fact you like it shows a lack of love for her altogether. You do not love her. The fact she does it in front of you shows a lack of love for you. She does not love you! Rethink yourself, dump her silly ass and move on hero!

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  • morbidthoughts11

    i think if u brought her around me id fuck her, ive doen that shit to ppl.. im a snake like that, but if i seen someone do that to my girl id fuckin shoot the whole party up.. i wish i cud be more like u dude and not care,also wish i cud resist on flirting with girls liek your girlfriend i cant resist, and i always end up fuckin them. my girlfriend usually leaves parties early one night i brought one girl (asian) downstairs and she sucked my dick 5 minutes afgter my girlfriends mom picked her up.. i jus cant help myself

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  • JuliusE

    I think you're fucked up. Either that's some kind of perversion that will have lots of negative affects on any relationship and/or you need other peoples approval so damn bad you have to have other guys hitting on and messing around with your gf to feel good about yourself. Sounds like self-confidence and maybe esteem issues to me

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