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Hi guys I'm 18 and I just started trying anal masturbation. I tried it using soap as lube and going slowly with my index finger. I found it very painful and I only got just past the first knuckle on my finger. Way am I doing wrong? I thought there is an enjoyable sensation? IIN?
Yes, I've done this since I was 12, I'm 42! Start slow, get lube like they said above, and go slow! DO NOT put anything that will get lost up there, or you'll be mortified in the ER at the local hospital! Lol. Eventually go to a 'toy' store, aka Cupids, and buy an anal viberator. You never look back!
As soon as you said soap, I knew what was wrong. It's the soap. I tried using soap as lube once. It hurt. Will never do again. Other possible problems are that maybe a finger is too big to start with for you, and you should try an unsharpened pencil or something. Another thing, an a likely candidate is you have to relax your anal muscles. If you can't relax them, you won't get anything but pain.
Try anal beads for an amazing sensation, push them in one at a time and when you are about to cum slowly pull them out, you will have the best orgasm ever ! I used marti gras beads and they work just as well !
use a good lubricant. keep trying with your finger. once you figure it out you will be going for bigger stuff once you orgasm you wont stop
Don't worry most lads are tight to begin with. Self anal can be difficult. I do a lot of work with lads getting them relaxed and ready to self anal with some start up routines. Happy to help you to.
BEST ORGASMS EVER!!!!!
Relax, take it slow, enjoy yourself/
Took me sometime to get used to it but now it is AMAZING
me, i use Vaseline based hand lotion
you can do it!lol
like the above poster said .... try it while your masterbating normally ..... do both at the same time ,,, its how i got accostum to anal sex ... its worth it coz you will have the most huge orgasms ever! :)
Try water or silicone based lube. Relax your entire body and go slow at first. One cm at a time. As you start you need to stop and hold your finger there for a moment so your body can get use to it.
It started out hard for me but now it feels alot better. Wish you luck.
Instead of just plain anal stimulation you could try it during regular masturbation or sex. There's nothing wrong with you. Everyone has different turn-ons.